we usually contact each other on msn. we exchanged numbers last week when she asked me if i was available to meet for coffee on sunday or/and monday. she'll be staying at a hotel in the city. should i call her on friday/sat or should i wait for her to contact me?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
girl with bf wants to meet sunday..
- Thread starter chance-
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
let her contact you. make the date for sunday... v-day. happy hr drinks (not coffee), "romance atmosphere, etc. get her buzzed, and you will wind up in her hotel rm bed.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
I'd let her contact me. She's the one w/ the dude. Just be careful and do not make one of the biggest mistakes known to man: "wining and dining" the next man's lady!!! Do not spend a nickel on her and bang her on behalf of "sosuave.net". Lolchance- said:
If a woman already has a boyfriend, and she welcomes other guys to "take her out" it is either one of two things:
1) She wants to cheat, or
2) She wants to be spoiled
Do NOT help her with #2. Be bold, bad @ss and fulfill her dreams of being smutted.
not like i have any money anyway. lol. but my plan was to have a drink (coffee) i dont drink alcohol... and neither does she. .. anyway, have a drink, small talk.. ask her to show me her hotel room. get her to sit on the bed.. start to massage her back (which almost always works!) and then start layin some kisses on her neck while shes laying on the bed with her back to me.
getting her to show me her hotel room is a good sign right!? if she didn't wanna hook up she'd tell me no yea?
update
Basic Information
Interested In:
Women
Men
Looking For:
Dating
A Relationship
- on her facebook
hopefully it's not a mistake
getting her to show me her hotel room is a good sign right!? if she didn't wanna hook up she'd tell me no yea?
update
Basic Information
Interested In:
Women
Men
Looking For:
Dating
A Relationship
- on her facebook
hopefully it's not a mistake
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
IF she takes you to her room,she's down for sex. She is in a strange town with a strange man[on purpose]. She's looking for strange,as long as you don't blow it too badly,it will be you
i didn't post it to show off. i'm being serious... would it be weird if i asked this girl im currently seeing (is that better?) to drop me off to meet the other girl cause shes going up that way anyway. instead of taking a one hour train trip.Blank said: