"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl with a medical condition.

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Would you marry/date a woman who has chronic pain? Overall she's a great girl, body, face, mentality, subservient, intelligent, educated, reads A LOT, can design websites, but her only flaw is that her condition keeps her from being able to sit through a whole movie, getting up to leave 2 or 3 times an hour.

Would you let that bother you, if the sex was good?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chronic pain is not normal. It's not an illness on itself (or condition), it's a warning indicator. That raises red flags for me.
 

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I once dated a girl who had juvenile rheumatoid arthritis...I was 18 and she was 19. Her joints always hurt and she was deteroriating physically (used to be quite active, snowboarding, etc) but otherwise was no problem. The sex was great, and she has access to medicinal marijuana prescriptions so I was always baked out of my mind!
 

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Nygard said:
Chronic pain is not normal. It's not an illness on itself (or condition), it's a warning indicator. That raises red flags for me.
It could be alot of things. Hell, even stress can do that to a person.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It could be alot of things. Hell, even stress can do that to a person
There, you just wrote it yourself. Pain is sometimes indicates an unhealthy amount of stress.

It's not about the "things", it's about the reason why she's not trying to relieve it.(or maybe how she is trying, I don't know enough)
 

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NO! for the simple fact that most women only get worse when you marry them. Sure she is nice now but just wait till you live with her. It's a world of difference to only see them once or twice a week with their medical condition than to live everyday with them and their problem.
 

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f283000 said:
NO! for the simple fact that most women only get worse when you marry them. Sure she is nice now but just wait till you live with her. It's a world of difference to only see them once or twice a week with their medical condition than to live everyday with them and their problem.

Sad but true!

Cronic diseases and medical conditions only get worse with age. If you can avoid it from the start, then DO so!
 

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Her condition is worse than I had first imagined. Intercourse hurts. Next.
 
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