There's a girl I'm interested in, the catch; she has a boyfriend. I think what I should do is just next her, for now. I'm pretty sure that I've taken it as far as it can go as long as she has a boyfriend. I'm just gonna wait it out until they break up or I just forget her. What do ya think.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Girl with a boyfriend
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Two viewpoints on this.
Boyfriends don't matter.
BUT it takes the right situation to follow through.
Don't date girls with boyfriends... don't try to break up girls with boyfriends...
The only situation where boyfriends shouldn't cross your mind... is if its a one time late night, after club hookup. One Night Stands with a chick with a BF don't matter..... otherwise leave it.
Boyfriends don't matter.
BUT it takes the right situation to follow through.
Don't date girls with boyfriends... don't try to break up girls with boyfriends...
The only situation where boyfriends shouldn't cross your mind... is if its a one time late night, after club hookup. One Night Stands with a chick with a BF don't matter..... otherwise leave it.
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Nearly every hb8-9-10 has a boyfriend. If you were to go for single chicks, you'd have to holla at ugly girls.
WC2
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Do you get out much?nismo-4 said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Timing is critical with girls with BFs ... everything must fall into place and you must assure her that its safe and stealthy so she is comfortable... and you need to listen to her for hints that they are on the rocks...
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nismo-4 said:
you are right and 99% of those HB8s and 9s cheat on their BFs that is how they get new BFs.... so get in line spit your game and wait your turn
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To be honest, I spend more time in entertainment trying to get that major deal than getting chicks, since that deal will get me and everyone else in the company (it's all guys, 6 to be exact, who when it comes to women, make Beavis and Butt-Head look smart) laid continuously. For right now, we focus on that and getting noticed on myspace. It seems that we've all HAD to fail with getting women until we get famous. Otherwise, I noticed most women don't even need a man in their life! Apparently, we all sit at home and network our myspace pages. I now have nearly 18k friends and 47k profile views.WC2 said:
When out clubbing, even with wingmen, we've all failed miserably. The women checked out OTHER WOMEN!!! No, that's not a typo.
In day game, I've gotten women interested, yet when I make a move I get chewed out like a dumbass.
I've become more psychic, and I started future sighting everything. It's spared me from rejection many times, but I can't find out when to make a move. I don't even know the right way to ask a girl out! All the ways I know are totally wrong and are sure-fire ways to get rejected.
Next her. It's far more easier to get a girl without a boyfriend, and I'm not particularly a fan of guys chasing after girls who are currently in a relationship unless you feel her boyfriend is not treating her properly.
Has she shown any major indicators of interest? (Serious flirting, extra long hugs, kino, etc.) If not, I wouldn't bother. Don't wait for her, time is precious, go out there and catch another big fish!
Has she shown any major indicators of interest? (Serious flirting, extra long hugs, kino, etc.) If not, I wouldn't bother. Don't wait for her, time is precious, go out there and catch another big fish!
if you can internalize this fact properly that you don't care if she has a boyfriend or not...whether you'll ever bed her or not...if you'll ever meet her again or not...and just go and flirt with her just because you like doing it...
I promise you can bed her in a week....
sherineo
I promise you can bed her in a week....
sherineo
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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What you need to do is STOP cupcaking and obsessing over a girl with a boyfriend and then get out there and get yourself a girl who doesn't have a boyfriend. How would you like it if there was some guy sniffing and lingering around your girl, plotting and scheming, asking around on the internet how to take her off you?