"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl with a bf???

LegendBoy

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Okay chick I am interested in. She knows who I am, have talked a few times briefly. Though I never number closed because I was busy with another chick. She is also friends with my cousin.

So she has a boyfriend... I really don't think it should matter as he is probably a dirty little ****a. I mean what is the success chance with a girl with a bf.?

If they know something truely better comes along will they dispatch the dead wood (bf). Or are they usually going to stay with there bf.. Also does it matter how long they have been together.. A short period would maybe mean no attachment but they are excited as it is new.. Long period may mean attachment but it may be getting boring..

This girl ain't majorly hot not bad just she don't drink, smoke and party as far as I know. So she comes out of my personal made filter pretty well. Thoughts on this!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yuriy777

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LegendBoy said:
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So she has a boyfriend... I really don't think it should matter as he is probably a dirty little ****a. I mean what is the success chance with a girl with a bf.?
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…About the same as with a [non-desperate] girl without a boyfriend.
Unless she is super happy with her bf she'd probably leave him faster than it took me to write this.
 

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WHAT IS WITH GUYS ON THIS SITE THAT WANT UNAVAILABLE WOMEN!!!!

I'm tried of seeing this f*cking question. Dude, why do want to spend you time and efforts on a chick that isn't available? When I see this, immediately think that the guy asking the question really isn't serious about getting chicks, because if he wasn't he wouldn't be putting his time, effort, and money into a woman that isn't available to him.

Unless this broad is purusing you, why are you bothering?
 

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Some questions:
1) Does the boyfriend own a gun?
2) Is he a member of the Church of Satan?
3) Is he a member of a gang or have mob connections?
4) Does he have alot of prison friends or have a criminal record?
5) Does he wear a leather jacket and owns a Harley Davidson bike?
 

Yuriy777

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Freddy1 said:
Some questions:
1) Does the boyfriend own a gun?
2) Is he a member of the Church of Satan?
3) Is he a member of a gang or have mob connections?
4) Does he have alot of prison friends or have a criminal record?
5) Does he wear a leather jacket and owns a Harley Davidson bike?
You should be slightly concerned with the first 4.
The fifth one---not so much.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maximus Rex said:
WHAT IS WITH GUYS ON THIS SITE THAT WANT UNAVAILABLE WOMEN!!!!
Its element of "having stuff you shouldn't have"....
 

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girls with boyfriends should be off limits, unless her boyfriend is a loser.

good luck
 

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Maximus Rex said:
WHAT IS WITH GUYS ON THIS SITE THAT WANT UNAVAILABLE WOMEN!!!!

I'm tried of seeing this f*cking question. Dude, why do want to spend you time and efforts on a chick that isn't available? When I see this, immediately think that the guy asking the question really isn't serious about getting chicks, because if he wasn't he wouldn't be putting his time, effort, and money into a woman that isn't available to him.

Unless this broad is purusing you, why are you bothering?

There's a lot of taken women out there. Obviously some of them must have crappy boyfriends. Not trying to make it right just giving you some of the rationales.
 

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If they're long term, don't try and break it up. Its not right, especially when there are so many hot girls out there. If its under 3 months, she's fair game! Don't disrespect her bf, as she will get defensive. Almost overpraise him, so that she focuses on his bad points. If she talks to you about something he does, subtly indicate that he's overkeen like "awww he's just really protective of you because he likes you so much, he doesnt want to let you go."
 

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Well I really reckon I should be able to get her... Who ever he is chances are his looks aren't like mine. So i have the edge there..

Anyway I'll have an attempt next week at school.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maximus Rex said:
WHAT IS WITH GUYS ON THIS SITE THAT WANT UNAVAILABLE WOMEN!!!!

I'm tried of seeing this f*cking question. Dude, why do want to spend you time and efforts on a chick that isn't available? When I see this, immediately think that the guy asking the question really isn't serious about getting chicks, because if he wasn't he wouldn't be putting his time, effort, and money into a woman that isn't available to him.

Unless this broad is purusing you, why are you bothering?
Have you ever look around and talk to girls lately? Most of the hot and "good" chicks are already taken. There are rarely any "good" chicks around when you're around the age of maybe 20 and up.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
WHAT IS WITH GUYS ON THIS SITE THAT WANT UNAVAILABLE WOMEN!!!!

I'm tried of seeing this f*cking question. Dude, why do want to spend you time and efforts on a chick that isn't available? When I see this, immediately think that the guy asking the question really isn't serious about getting chicks, because if he wasn't he wouldn't be putting his time, effort, and money into a woman that isn't available to him.

Unless this broad is purusing you, why are you bothering?
I can't find single women anywhere!!! Thats why.:cuss:
 

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blinkwatt said:
Its element of "having stuff you shouldn't have"....
One of the girls at my job was saying this about human nature in general. Kind of a grass is always greener type deal. I had her tell me her story and she was seeing this guy out here, kind of taking him for granted was seeing other guys on the side. Then the guy moved to Kansas for baseball, gets a new girlfriend and she's like "what the hell he's not allowed to do that!" I guess the guys coming back to vegas for holidays and she's feinding for him now that he's unvailable. Summary: He's gone and has a girlfirend making him unavailable and more desireable. If he dropped everything and came back she'd lose intrest almost instantly (by her own admittion).

I suppose we all instctively want things that are unavailable or off limits to us. I'm developing a theory on why this is but It's very incomplete at the moment.
 

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One thing I learned from this site and experience is to next a girl with a bf. really.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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