"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl winks at me while shaking my hand

mr. kennedy

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I was at a networking event last night with a few of my coworkers.

I was talking to 2 other guys when this HB8 walked up to us and introduced herself. You can tell she was extroverted and comfortable in her skin. The 4 of us started talking about what we do for a living, where we work, etc.

At some point, the 2 other guys started talking and I was talking one on one with the HB8. I avoided the work talk, chatted about fun things and teased her a lot. We spoke for 10 minutes before she told me she had to step out because a friend arrived. She shaked my hand and winked at me.

I then went back to the 2 other guys to talk. At the end of the night, the HB8 cameback to say bye to the 3 of us as she had plans with friends for supper. At a bar, I would have asked for her number but I didn't feel it was appropriate to do it in front of my coworkers.

Am I reading too much into this or is she into me? There is a networking event every month so I might see her again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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T-KidTNB

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mr. kennedy said:
I was at a networking event last night with a few of my coworkers.

I was talking to 2 other guys when this HB8 walked up to us and introduced herself. You can tell she was extroverted and comfortable in her skin. The 4 of us started talking about what we do for a living, where we work, etc.

At some point, the 2 other guys started talking and I was talking one on one with the HB8. I avoided the work talk, chatted about fun things and teased her a lot. We spoke for 10 minutes before she told me she had to step out because a friend arrived. She shaked my hand and winked at me.

I then went back to the 2 other guys to talk. At the end of the night, the HB8 cameback to say bye to the 3 of us as she had plans with friends for supper. At a bar, I would have asked for her number but I didn't feel it was appropriate to do it in front of my coworkers.

Am I reading too much into this or is she into me? There is a networking event every month so I might see her again.
A wink means nothing. A yes to a date and a show up to the date with you does.

If you see her next time ask for her number and if she's single, then ask her out. Otherwise don't think about it.
 

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IOI's are useless. They don't mean sh*t.

When a woman says yes and her actions back it up, that is interest. AFAIC, all other talk is either useless or just a cry for attention.

Case closed.
 

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It means that she is already in love with you and wants to have your babies!!!!

I'm just messin' with you romeo. :whistle:

It doesn't mean anything. I've had girls kiss my shoulders or kiss me on my arm, play with there hair, wink, etc it doesn't mean anything until and unless you close the deal and blow your load with a woman. Once you f@ck a women than you check for signs of interest but even then it might not mean anything. Women are very fickle by nature so you have to keep that in mind when approaching. :rockon:
 
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