"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girl winks at me while shaking my hand

mr. kennedy

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I was at a networking event last night with a few of my coworkers.

I was talking to 2 other guys when this HB8 walked up to us and introduced herself. You can tell she was extroverted and comfortable in her skin. The 4 of us started talking about what we do for a living, where we work, etc.

At some point, the 2 other guys started talking and I was talking one on one with the HB8. I avoided the work talk, chatted about fun things and teased her a lot. We spoke for 10 minutes before she told me she had to step out because a friend arrived. She shaked my hand and winked at me.

I then went back to the 2 other guys to talk. At the end of the night, the HB8 cameback to say bye to the 3 of us as she had plans with friends for supper. At a bar, I would have asked for her number but I didn't feel it was appropriate to do it in front of my coworkers.

Am I reading too much into this or is she into me? There is a networking event every month so I might see her again.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mr. kennedy said:
I was at a networking event last night with a few of my coworkers.

I was talking to 2 other guys when this HB8 walked up to us and introduced herself. You can tell she was extroverted and comfortable in her skin. The 4 of us started talking about what we do for a living, where we work, etc.

At some point, the 2 other guys started talking and I was talking one on one with the HB8. I avoided the work talk, chatted about fun things and teased her a lot. We spoke for 10 minutes before she told me she had to step out because a friend arrived. She shaked my hand and winked at me.

I then went back to the 2 other guys to talk. At the end of the night, the HB8 cameback to say bye to the 3 of us as she had plans with friends for supper. At a bar, I would have asked for her number but I didn't feel it was appropriate to do it in front of my coworkers.

Am I reading too much into this or is she into me? There is a networking event every month so I might see her again.
A wink means nothing. A yes to a date and a show up to the date with you does.

If you see her next time ask for her number and if she's single, then ask her out. Otherwise don't think about it.
 

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IOI's are useless. They don't mean sh*t.

When a woman says yes and her actions back it up, that is interest. AFAIC, all other talk is either useless or just a cry for attention.

Case closed.
 

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It means that she is already in love with you and wants to have your babies!!!!

I'm just messin' with you romeo. :whistle:

It doesn't mean anything. I've had girls kiss my shoulders or kiss me on my arm, play with there hair, wink, etc it doesn't mean anything until and unless you close the deal and blow your load with a woman. Once you f@ck a women than you check for signs of interest but even then it might not mean anything. Women are very fickle by nature so you have to keep that in mind when approaching. :rockon:
 
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