A few days ago I was standing around reading and I saw a girl I recognized from awhile ago but I never knew her back then so I said hi and she came up and she was asking me some stuff being all flirty and then she says " wow you look different,here let me give you my number" and she writes her number on my hand and tells me to call her. I really don't like this girl much but I could use another f-buddy around here so I was wondering what the best thing to do is?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Girl who's number I got
- Thread starter dillin
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
have the same thing going on. fuk her bro. thats what im doing tonight. if she gives you a boner, then you wanna fuk her. if she dont give you a boner, she must be fuking really bad.
yah she can get me hard easily
I was just wondering though because i've never been in this type of situation before like when i call her whats going to happen and stuff. Normally its like "hey lets go here saturday" but this is a bit different i think.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
She is going to rape you, as she has done with other dudes - she is probably a serial rapist!!!! Don't let her tie you up - she may be a psycho ho!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
UPDATE: I called her the other day and she called me back and left me a message and said "hey whats up blah blah blah call me again at # love ya!"
it was weird when she was talking on the phone though she made all her words really long like "heeeyyy".
it was weird when she was talking on the phone though she made all her words really long like "heeeyyy".
Kineti[C]harm
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invite her to your house or vice verca... Watch movie or whatever trivial task as an excuse, have sex, converse about potential fbrelationship....
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
dillin, how old are you???
What do you want her to do to get your attention?? Jump on your face with no panties on!!!!
Call her already and set up a function!!!
What do you want her to do to get your attention?? Jump on your face with no panties on!!!!
Call her already and set up a function!!!
If you really don't want to go out with her anywhere, invite her round to watch videos, admire your stamp collection, or some crap. Then try to fvck her.
If you don't call her back she will get p1ssed and you will be kicking yourself for giving up what might be an easy lay. Don't be your own worst enemy.
You have a window of opportunity. Make use of it.
If you don't call her back she will get p1ssed and you will be kicking yourself for giving up what might be an easy lay. Don't be your own worst enemy.
You have a window of opportunity. Make use of it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
heh frommy experience, any girl who scribbled her # on my hands WANTS TO GET LAID
But after being on this board for a while, I would never let a girl write on my hands again
to me, its a show of power, and Ive actually stopped girls from doing this and grabbed a napkin or matches, usually they are more curious that they didnt allow a girl to write their #'s on their hands (does he have a g/f?)
Events? Get some liquor, buy some groceries, invite her to your pad, and ask her to cook for you (while you are both drinking), watch a movie (with sexual scenes), then start some horseplay, and its all downhill from there
this is a tried and tested field report from me
But after being on this board for a while, I would never let a girl write on my hands again
to me, its a show of power, and Ive actually stopped girls from doing this and grabbed a napkin or matches, usually they are more curious that they didnt allow a girl to write their #'s on their hands (does he have a g/f?)
Events? Get some liquor, buy some groceries, invite her to your pad, and ask her to cook for you (while you are both drinking), watch a movie (with sexual scenes), then start some horseplay, and its all downhill from there
this is a tried and tested field report from me