A few days ago I was standing around reading and I saw a girl I recognized from awhile ago but I never knew her back then so I said hi and she came up and she was asking me some stuff being all flirty and then she says " wow you look different,here let me give you my number" and she writes her number on my hand and tells me to call her. I really don't like this girl much but I could use another f-buddy around here so I was wondering what the best thing to do is?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Girl who's number I got
- Thread starter dillin
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tails
Senior Don Juan
have the same thing going on. fuk her bro. thats what im doing tonight. if she gives you a boner, then you wanna fuk her. if she dont give you a boner, she must be fuking really bad.
yah she can get me hard easily
I was just wondering though because i've never been in this type of situation before like when i call her whats going to happen and stuff. Normally its like "hey lets go here saturday" but this is a bit different i think.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
She is going to rape you, as she has done with other dudes - she is probably a serial rapist!!!! Don't let her tie you up - she may be a psycho ho!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
UPDATE: I called her the other day and she called me back and left me a message and said "hey whats up blah blah blah call me again at # love ya!"
it was weird when she was talking on the phone though she made all her words really long like "heeeyyy".
it was weird when she was talking on the phone though she made all her words really long like "heeeyyy".
Kineti[C]harm
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invite her to your house or vice verca... Watch movie or whatever trivial task as an excuse, have sex, converse about potential fbrelationship....
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
dillin, how old are you???
What do you want her to do to get your attention?? Jump on your face with no panties on!!!!
Call her already and set up a function!!!
What do you want her to do to get your attention?? Jump on your face with no panties on!!!!
Call her already and set up a function!!!
If you really don't want to go out with her anywhere, invite her round to watch videos, admire your stamp collection, or some crap. Then try to fvck her.
If you don't call her back she will get p1ssed and you will be kicking yourself for giving up what might be an easy lay. Don't be your own worst enemy.
You have a window of opportunity. Make use of it.
If you don't call her back she will get p1ssed and you will be kicking yourself for giving up what might be an easy lay. Don't be your own worst enemy.
You have a window of opportunity. Make use of it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
heh frommy experience, any girl who scribbled her # on my hands WANTS TO GET LAID
But after being on this board for a while, I would never let a girl write on my hands again
to me, its a show of power, and Ive actually stopped girls from doing this and grabbed a napkin or matches, usually they are more curious that they didnt allow a girl to write their #'s on their hands (does he have a g/f?)
Events? Get some liquor, buy some groceries, invite her to your pad, and ask her to cook for you (while you are both drinking), watch a movie (with sexual scenes), then start some horseplay, and its all downhill from there
this is a tried and tested field report from me
But after being on this board for a while, I would never let a girl write on my hands again
to me, its a show of power, and Ive actually stopped girls from doing this and grabbed a napkin or matches, usually they are more curious that they didnt allow a girl to write their #'s on their hands (does he have a g/f?)
Events? Get some liquor, buy some groceries, invite her to your pad, and ask her to cook for you (while you are both drinking), watch a movie (with sexual scenes), then start some horseplay, and its all downhill from there
this is a tried and tested field report from me