You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
It sounds to me like she might have low interest, but on the other hand doing the same thing at 3pm instead of 1pm is hardly a big deal. Personally I'd have just agreed to it and tried to escalate on the date as normal, rather than making plans for another day which is even more inconvenient. I'd rather find out today if she's down than wait until Thursday.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If you agree with her reschedule for later it means that you are chasing her . She is more interested in seeing other people before you and even pushes your date in order to this , while you will agree with it .
I would agree because 2 hours later hardly makes any difference to me, whilst having to do the same thing all over again on another day is a pain in the ass and she could just flake again. As long as she doesn't pull this last minute or cancel completely I wouldn't be bothered at all.If you agree with her reschedule for later it means that you are chasing her . She is more interested in seeing other people before you and even pushes your date in order to this , while you will agree with it .
dates on women’s terms is not a good deal , as she holds all the cards
the op mentioned that she had low interest from the get go , as they dated for a while and they Broked due her low interest level
That's another issue then. Generally speaking, low interest women are not worth dealing with.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Gold
No poosey is worth a mans self respect
yes , but I think that people here are super sensitive and over exaggerate things .