She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It sounds to me like she might have low interest, but on the other hand doing the same thing at 3pm instead of 1pm is hardly a big deal. Personally I'd have just agreed to it and tried to escalate on the date as normal, rather than making plans for another day which is even more inconvenient. I'd rather find out today if she's down than wait until Thursday.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you agree with her reschedule for later it means that you are chasing her . She is more interested in seeing other people before you and even pushes your date in order to this , while you will agree with it .
I would agree because 2 hours later hardly makes any difference to me, whilst having to do the same thing all over again on another day is a pain in the ass and she could just flake again. As long as she doesn't pull this last minute or cancel completely I wouldn't be bothered at all.If you agree with her reschedule for later it means that you are chasing her . She is more interested in seeing other people before you and even pushes your date in order to this , while you will agree with it .
dates on women’s terms is not a good deal , as she holds all the cards
the op mentioned that she had low interest from the get go , as they dated for a while and they Broked due her low interest level
That's another issue then. Generally speaking, low interest women are not worth dealing with.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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No poosey is worth a mans self respect
yes , but I think that people here are super sensitive and over exaggerate things .