Girl who I used to talk to messaged me randomly

[doctor1996]

Well were you telling him that you were above her?

I just said I'll let them chase me

 

[Thorninmyside]

Girl who I used to talk to got dumped and is working her way down the validation list to see who bites.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I just said I'll let them chase me

Then to hell with them. Part of it is how you say things so you may have come off the wrong way. Overall though, you shouldn’t really talk about it to most people though because society is full of pvssies nowadays.

 

[dude99]

What I like to do is talk to them like it’s the first time ever talking to them. I’m still friendly and all that crap but I don’t reference past convos or say anything that will infer that I know anything about them. Then if they ask to meet up or reference something from the past about me saying or doing something, then I will say “you know I gotta be completely honest with you, I don’t really know who you are lol” then send a second text saying “you just randomly started talking to me about [insert when she began hitting you up again] ago and I just kinda went along with it cuz I figured why not” or something like that. Then depending on the context I may or may not send a third text saying “so who exactly are you?” She will most likely only say her first name without saying how you and her talked however long ago and then you reply asking for her last name because she isn’t the only girl with that name that you know (unless it actually is some kind of foreign name that no one has or if she points out exactly how I got her number in the first place then I don’t say that, but normally I would). After her telling me and all that crap, then I just turn cold and send short curt responses. It’s fun just to kinda string them along like that tbh. Unless they really seem to go above and beyond to to talk to me then I’ll start to warm up a little, but no girl in 2017 (almost 2018 now) does that anymore. Unfortunately for me, this has only happened 2 or 3 times so far, but it’s still fun nonetheless. It’s fun to just mess around with them and waste their time though. Even those random telemarketing phone calls from India too, I start spouting out some horrifically racial slurs so bad that most people don’t even get offended and just think “damn, that’s racist”. I mean it’s over the phone and text so who really cares? So much fun to troll people. Serves them right for trying to take my money.

I did something similar to an ex who cheated on me then hit me up 5 years later like she did nothing wrong. It was pretty funny how floored she was when i didnt know who she was. It went like:

Her "how you been? You know its been forever and you keep crossing my mind."

Blah blah for the next couple of minutes.

Me " ive been great. Sorry i gotta ask who is this? It must have been a long time since we talked last cuz im drawing a blank."

Her "it's me......you know Jen."

Me " Jen. Sorry i dated like 6 Jens in the last 4 years which one are you?"

The rest we will just say she was not very happy with the fact i didn't know who she was and her hoping for a rekindling of old feelings was greeted with indifference.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I did something similar to an ex who cheated on me then hit me up 5 years later like she did nothing wrong. It was pretty funny how floored she was when i didnt know who she was. It went like:

Her "how you been? You know its been forever and you keep crossing my mind."

Blah blah for the next couple of minutes.

Me " ive been great. Sorry i gotta ask who is this? It must have been a long time since we talked last cuz im drawing a blank."

Her "it's me......you know Jen."

Me " Jen. Sorry i dated like 6 Jens in the last 4 years which one are you?"

The rest we will just say she was not very happy with the fact i didn't know who she was and her hoping for a rekindling of old feelings was greeted with indifference.

Greatest feeling ever ain’t it?

 

[marmel75]

I don't think I want to re-engage with someone who treated me like that. Or some attention seeking *****. I'm sorry, but she's not up to my level. And I'm getting random phone calls with random caller ID's. How mature.

Then why make a long post about it?? I dont get you guys on here half the time...you make some long post about a chick and what you should do then play the "she isnt good enough for me" card to try and protect your fragile ego...

If she isnt good enough then you wouldnt have posted about her. You want to know how you can end up banging her. Lets be real about it.

Being confident is great...coming off like a self-absorbed douchebag is something totally else. And whether you actually are or not its what you come off sounding as...to people who dont know you, their perception is reality. Remember that next time you are out with a woman.

 

[doctor1996]

Then why make a long post about it?? I dont get you guys on here half the time...you make some long post about a chick and what you should do then play the "she isnt good enough for me" card to try and protect your fragile ego...

If she isnt good enough then you wouldnt have posted about her. You want to know how you can end up banging her. Lets be real about it.

Being confident is great...coming off like a self-absorbed douchebag is something totally else. And whether you actually are or not its what you come off sounding as...to people who dont know you, their perception is reality. Remember that next time you are out with a woman.

So I'm coming off as a self-absorbed douchebag? Thank you for the constructive criticism. Seems like I'm the only one you target like this in all of your responses.

 

[marmel75]

So I'm coming off as a self-absorbed douchebag? Thank you for the constructive criticism. Seems like I'm the only one you target like this in all of your responses.

Not at all if you've read enough of my posts. And I'm not trying to but look at what youve states in rhe various posts ive rad from you on here:

- You are studying to be a doctor. Great, that's awesome. The attitude you project is that you can look down on others and hold yourself up higher because of your "status". Except you arent actually a doctor yet. And even when you become one, so what? You are way too impressed with yourself. This whole "chicks arent good enough for me" thing the second they turn you down is a part of that. But yet they were good enough for you 5 minutes ago before they turned you down. Lmao.
- you've stated you wear "$900 jackets". Again...bragging about yourself. Again. Who cares? I know dudes that wear T-shirts, old jeans and sneakers out that pull more women than 95% of posters on here do. $900 jackets arent going to get you laid...especially when you have the mindset that's all you need to do.

-You repeatedly state women arent good enough for you. But yet this is only after they reject you.

You are falling into this trap so many people who arent good with women do and that is believing that simply achieving something that is looked at as "status" and having some money is going to get you laid. It will, by paying escorts or strippers.

If you think this is the type of attitude that is going to allow you to attract a quality woman then you are sorely mistaken. Note I said quality which excludes a woman who is with you solely because of your status or money. They will let you take them on dates and buy them stuff and then they will just go fvck the broke dude with actual game they are attracted to.

What I am trying to instill in you is that if you are coming off this way in a few posts to guys on a random internet site, then imagine the way you must come off in your interactions with women. You aren't doing yourself any favors, lets just say that.

 

[doctor1996]

Not at all if you've read enough of my posts. And I'm not trying to but look at what youve states in rhe various posts ive rad from you on here:

- You are studying to be a doctor. Great, that's awesome. The attitude you project is that you can look down on others and hold yourself up higher because of your "status". Except you arent actually a doctor yet. And even when you become one, so what? You are way too impressed with yourself. This whole "chicks arent good enough for me" thing the second they turn you down is a part of that. But yet they were good enough for you 5 minutes ago before they turned you down. Lmao.
- you've stated you wear "$900 jackets". Again...bragging about yourself. Again. Who cares? I know dudes that wear T-shirts, old jeans and sneakers out that pull more women than 95% of posters on here do. $900 jackets arent going to get you laid...especially when you have the mindset that's all you need to do.

-You repeatedly state women arent good enough for you. But yet this is only after they reject you.

You are falling into this trap so many people who arent good with women do and that is believing that simply achieving something that is looked at as "status" and having some money is going to get you laid. It will, by paying escorts or strippers.

If you think this is the type of attitude that is going to allow you to attract a quality woman then you are sorely mistaken. Note I said quality which excludes a woman who is with you solely because of your status or money. They will let you take them on dates and buy them stuff and then they will just go fvck the broke dude with actual game they are attracted to.

What I am trying to instill in you is that if you are coming off this way in a few posts to guys on a random internet site, then imagine the way you must come off in your interactions with women. You aren't doing yourself any favors, lets just say that.

I don't try to come off arrogant, and seem like a self-absorbed douchebag. The only reason I brought up the value of my clothing is because you stated the reason why I'm not going any where with my texts is probably because of A. My style, B. They think I'm weird.. So on forth. And I was trying to say I don't think my style is completely bad or my wardrobe. But I guess you are right, and admitting it is probably the best case