"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl who I probably won't see again

Shalashaska07

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So basically there's this girl I really liked who got on bus to college. However she's finished her exams now so won't be getting on the bus again. I didn't find the bottle to say anything to her at the times that I did see her, but now I know she won't be coming back I deeply regret that :( However, a friend of hers still does on the bus. I was thinking the only way I would ever get in contact with the girl I like again was if I asked her friend for her number or email address or something. Was just wondering if you guys thought this was a good idea or not, and what the best way of asking through her friend would be? I don't want to come off as some stalker or something.

Thanks in advance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Go ahead and get the number, talk to her, then talk to us from there.
I don't know if you can actually have a relationship with her though if shes gone.
 

xander

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you can talk to the friend and then when u find out what her name is than you can go on facebook and check to see if the friend is on it than check to see if the girl you like is on her friends list.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I think it's better if you do this one through a phone call.
It's long-distance, you have to get your voice out, not just a bunch of text :p
 
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