"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl who I probably won't see again

Shalashaska07

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So basically there's this girl I really liked who got on bus to college. However she's finished her exams now so won't be getting on the bus again. I didn't find the bottle to say anything to her at the times that I did see her, but now I know she won't be coming back I deeply regret that :( However, a friend of hers still does on the bus. I was thinking the only way I would ever get in contact with the girl I like again was if I asked her friend for her number or email address or something. Was just wondering if you guys thought this was a good idea or not, and what the best way of asking through her friend would be? I don't want to come off as some stalker or something.

Thanks in advance.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Go ahead and get the number, talk to her, then talk to us from there.
I don't know if you can actually have a relationship with her though if shes gone.
 

xander

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you can talk to the friend and then when u find out what her name is than you can go on facebook and check to see if the friend is on it than check to see if the girl you like is on her friends list.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I think it's better if you do this one through a phone call.
It's long-distance, you have to get your voice out, not just a bunch of text :p
 
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