"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Im in college and their is this girl from my home town that i recently met on campus. She is asian and into the whole rave scene and from what i remember from high school she was into drugs when i was not.

Well now i smoke weed very regularly and am wondering if i should do this girl. I have to admit part of the reason why i want to do this is that it would be cool to have boned two girls from high school (i have already done one).

However, i cant help wondering if she has some std that she got when she was on X or something. I don't know, I want to do it (with a condom of course), but at the same time the idea sort of disgusts me because i can't help thinking she might have a disease. And if she does have one she has a lip piercing too so there is an open wound in her mouth that could spread it if i kissed her....

Anyone have experience in this? Am i over thinking it or should i be cautious?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pua1989 said:
wow do you have a penis?
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Yeah if you didn't understand thats the dilemma. I have a penis and want to **** this girl, but I don't want to get ****ed with a disease. If your going to reread it and respond with something useful please do, otherwise shut up
 
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don't be so judgmental, just because she does drugs doesn't mean she has stds.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I suppose your right. I should just do it. I know im going to be thinking about it the whole time though... which sucks im just the type of person who is a slight hypochondriac
 
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All you can do is wear a condom and hope for the best; or don't fvck her.
 
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He has every right to worry. Having been in the rave scene myself I got a first hand look at how promiscuous these girls really are, and it is quite disgusting.

Just be cautious, of course; and obviously wear a condom if you do hit that.

I wouldn't worry too much about her lip piercing, that won't do anything harmful to you. I've had my lip pierced for about 3 years now and I've never spread anything through my mouth to anyone, the only way that would happen is if I had a open soar (like herpes) on my mouth, which I don't. So obviously if she has a soar on her mouth, don't be kissing her!
 
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