Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl who does drugs

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Im in college and their is this girl from my home town that i recently met on campus. She is asian and into the whole rave scene and from what i remember from high school she was into drugs when i was not.

Well now i smoke weed very regularly and am wondering if i should do this girl. I have to admit part of the reason why i want to do this is that it would be cool to have boned two girls from high school (i have already done one).

However, i cant help wondering if she has some std that she got when she was on X or something. I don't know, I want to do it (with a condom of course), but at the same time the idea sort of disgusts me because i can't help thinking she might have a disease. And if she does have one she has a lip piercing too so there is an open wound in her mouth that could spread it if i kissed her....

Anyone have experience in this? Am i over thinking it or should i be cautious?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pua1989 said:
wow do you have a penis?
Yeah if you didn't understand thats the dilemma. I have a penis and want to **** this girl, but I don't want to get ****ed with a disease. If your going to reread it and respond with something useful please do, otherwise shut up
 

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don't be so judgmental, just because she does drugs doesn't mean she has stds.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I suppose your right. I should just do it. I know im going to be thinking about it the whole time though... which sucks im just the type of person who is a slight hypochondriac
 
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All you can do is wear a condom and hope for the best; or don't fvck her.
 

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He has every right to worry. Having been in the rave scene myself I got a first hand look at how promiscuous these girls really are, and it is quite disgusting.

Just be cautious, of course; and obviously wear a condom if you do hit that.

I wouldn't worry too much about her lip piercing, that won't do anything harmful to you. I've had my lip pierced for about 3 years now and I've never spread anything through my mouth to anyone, the only way that would happen is if I had a open soar (like herpes) on my mouth, which I don't. So obviously if she has a soar on her mouth, don't be kissing her!
 
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