"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Girl who does drugs

Nobeard

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 22, 2008
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
Im in college and their is this girl from my home town that i recently met on campus. She is asian and into the whole rave scene and from what i remember from high school she was into drugs when i was not.

Well now i smoke weed very regularly and am wondering if i should do this girl. I have to admit part of the reason why i want to do this is that it would be cool to have boned two girls from high school (i have already done one).

However, i cant help wondering if she has some std that she got when she was on X or something. I don't know, I want to do it (with a condom of course), but at the same time the idea sort of disgusts me because i can't help thinking she might have a disease. And if she does have one she has a lip piercing too so there is an open wound in her mouth that could spread it if i kissed her....

Anyone have experience in this? Am i over thinking it or should i be cautious?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Nobeard

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 22, 2008
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
pua1989 said:
wow do you have a penis?
Yeah if you didn't understand thats the dilemma. I have a penis and want to **** this girl, but I don't want to get ****ed with a disease. If your going to reread it and respond with something useful please do, otherwise shut up
 

hamilton

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2009
Messages
52
Reaction score
1
don't be so judgmental, just because she does drugs doesn't mean she has stds.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Nobeard

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 22, 2008
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
I suppose your right. I should just do it. I know im going to be thinking about it the whole time though... which sucks im just the type of person who is a slight hypochondriac
 
U

user43770

Guest
All you can do is wear a condom and hope for the best; or don't fvck her.
 

Scars

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
2,126
Reaction score
1,002
Age
36
Location
Phoenix
He has every right to worry. Having been in the rave scene myself I got a first hand look at how promiscuous these girls really are, and it is quite disgusting.

Just be cautious, of course; and obviously wear a condom if you do hit that.

I wouldn't worry too much about her lip piercing, that won't do anything harmful to you. I've had my lip pierced for about 3 years now and I've never spread anything through my mouth to anyone, the only way that would happen is if I had a open soar (like herpes) on my mouth, which I don't. So obviously if she has a soar on her mouth, don't be kissing her!
 
Top