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Girl was okay but suddenly she became so cold

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There was a girl in my class. Even though I looked at it from afar for a long time, I saw her alone. I went and talked and everything was fine actually. She knew I liked her. But she had a girlfriend.

I didn't say anything and that was how the day ended.
Today I sent a message today for a different topic but she was very cold. Just 1 word messages.

When she gave me that one message, I sent another. And when I saw that she sent her a single message, I said see you as if I was busy and left the chat.
Actually, before I left, I wrote something like "You become so cold when a topic related to classes comes up :D". Similar things had happened before when we were talking about classes.

Normally there was no profile photo, but it came after this conversation. So, when we talked before, everything was fine, but he didn't add me to the contact list. Now he acted cold for no reason and then added me to the contact list or something.

What should I think about that?
After she told me that she actually had a boyfriend, my feelings for her decreased. But I wonder why she act like that?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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She is not interested
I know.
The girl already knew that I liked her. And she had a boyfriend. So she had no emotional interest in me that day either.
But that day we were very good. She was too funny.
Today she is cold but I just wonder why.
 

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For the moment I thought you accidentally killed a girl, but you're just unable to accept the mercurial nature of female lust.
So it isn't about me? It's just because she is a woman?
Or may be her friends wasn't there that day and she had to hang out with me :D
 

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I know.
The girl already knew that I liked her. And she had a boyfriend. So she had no emotional interest in me that day either.
But that day we were very good. She was too funny.
Today she is cold but I just wonder why.
She was just being friendly.
 

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Actually, this is my question. Why did she suddenly stop being friendly today: D
Because you were obviously trying to hit on her and she wanted you to stay in the friend zone.
 

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It sounds like you still do if you care and want you to notice her. She overtly rejected you first so she has the upper hand.

just be polite, don’t initiate contact, and if she does, treat her like a coworker.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It sounds like you still do if you care and want you to notice her. She overtly rejected you first so she has the upper hand.

just be polite, don’t initiate contact, and if she does, treat her like a coworker.
Man we have to study together for our project :D I must care.
 
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