"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl wants to live dangerously HELP !!

wrestlerbjj

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hey ive been dating this girl for 4 months and the more i get to know her the more i realize this girl... is kinda well "sheltered"

Whenever this girl tells me about sumthing that was so much fun it has to do when sumone pushed her boundaries.... Such as her sneaking into a place after hours or sumthing against the rules

this leads me to believe this girl loves living dangerously as do all girls i guess... wut are sum things i can do to incorporate this element of danger into sum of our dates without getting arrested ! This girl is awesome and I really want her to have a fun time

I was thinking of bringing her to parties and such but ... i realy dont need a bunch of drunk horny guys hitting on her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grey Fox

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She maybe looking just for the adrenaline rush. Think skydiving, paintball, racing at a speedway. Those things will certainly get the blood pumping.

-Grey Fox
 

LikRetsam

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paintball!!!!!

She wants to do something risky.... so my question is... Do YOU?
 

kevbo

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paintballing is about as fun as it gets. if you're girl is willing to do it, you're a lucky man. very few girls around here would ever go paintballing. "it'd hurt too much." lol.
 

Vincent

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Are you 18? if not then do something cool and dangerous.

Paintball might be fun for you, bot not necesarily as much fun for her.

I'm not saying break the law, just remember its only illegal if you get caught. ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jiveturkey

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sex with no condom is cool AND dangerous!!!!!!!!!

seriously tho....hmmm......do sumthing thats childish fun....... if shes sheltered, shes probly never done that type of thing.... things like:

-ringing doors and running away
-egging cars/houses

u know, stupid stuff u did as a kid.....it sounds lame, but it'll give u both a good adrenaline rush, and if u get chases or anything, gaurenteed it'll be a date to remember
 
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