"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl wants to give me her number....

StoneCold

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Hi After flirting with a girl at a food store a pretty cute one at that the use of negs and c/f enabled me to close...

Now i did not have my mobile and no pen or paper she offered me her digits but i could do anything about it so i told her to remember my email which she didnt...



anyway after 3 weeks to my surprise i see this girl again this time we say hey we remeber each other how are you and bla bla bla

she was working and had to buy a quick drink and get back..


now i dont ask her for her number or anything....

I tell her i will come and see her sumtime...... and she goes ok i will give you my number when you come and see me..

what does this say about her .... clearly she is attracted to me... Im playing it cool and not acting desperate not wanting to spoil this valuble oppotunity...

any tips or advice :cool:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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seagull

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Maybe you're playing it a bit too cool, you should try and get her digits soon before she loses interest and moves on. You don't have that much of a repport with her just yet, so that's why you need to establish this by getting her number, hanging out with her and then exploiting this opportunity.
 
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