"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girl wants to give me her number....

StoneCold

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Hi After flirting with a girl at a food store a pretty cute one at that the use of negs and c/f enabled me to close...

Now i did not have my mobile and no pen or paper she offered me her digits but i could do anything about it so i told her to remember my email which she didnt...



anyway after 3 weeks to my surprise i see this girl again this time we say hey we remeber each other how are you and bla bla bla

she was working and had to buy a quick drink and get back..


now i dont ask her for her number or anything....

I tell her i will come and see her sumtime...... and she goes ok i will give you my number when you come and see me..

what does this say about her .... clearly she is attracted to me... Im playing it cool and not acting desperate not wanting to spoil this valuble oppotunity...

any tips or advice :cool:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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seagull

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Maybe you're playing it a bit too cool, you should try and get her digits soon before she loses interest and moves on. You don't have that much of a repport with her just yet, so that's why you need to establish this by getting her number, hanging out with her and then exploiting this opportunity.
 
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