"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl wants to exchange sexy pics on Snapchat

Prodoge

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Currently talking to this girl who said just wants to have fun and she wants to exchange sexy pics on snapchat before meeting up. Saying it's to get comfortable.

Not sure what to do, she definately is not a fake and someone actually showed me the pics she sent him. So yeah not sure what to do really
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude99

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Currently talking to this girl who said just wants to have fun and she wants to exchange sexy pics on snapchat before meeting up. Saying it's to get comfortable.

Not sure what to do, she definately is not a fake and someone actually showed me the pics she sent him. So yeah not sure what to do really
How did the "someone she sent pics to," make out? Did meet her? Did he date her? Or did he just feed her ego with validation?

Beware of game players.
 

Prodoge

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How did the "someone she sent pics to," make out? Did meet her? Did he date her? Or did he just feed her ego with validation?

Beware of game players.
Yeah thats what i am worried about that pics get sent and in the end nothing happens
 

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I had a girl that I met on a dating site and got her phone number. We swapped a few texts over the course of a week. Next thing I know we are sending snapchat video and I've got her doing naughty things. After that I texted her a few times and never heard from her again.

I'd lean on the side that this girl you are talking to just wants to swap some pics/video. Her saying she wants to swap pics so you two can get comfortable doesn't really make sense. When girls say things that don't make sense, they aren't telling the entire truth.

What you could do is start swapping pics, get her horny, then tell her that this would be so much more fun in person. I've gone this route before and it worked out very well. It took about 5hrs of back and forth texting, but I showed up at her apartment at midnight to fuhk her brains out. Never ever met her before that. The texting and pic swapping was just foreplay that opened the door for the real thing.
 

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Meh. She wants attention. You can use it escalate it and go for the smash or ignore if you're not interested (or have other better plates).

Saw this pic on Imgur today, somehow seemed relevant re: attention seeking: :lol:

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FwoGiZ

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I'd tell he she needs a boy, not a man... that I can send her a pic or two but I am definitely a face to face kinda guy and have no intentions on having an e-friend but that I am interested in having a drink with her even just for an hour. Less time wasted, get to know each other better.
 
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