"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl wants to exchange sexy pics on Snapchat

Prodoge

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Currently talking to this girl who said just wants to have fun and she wants to exchange sexy pics on snapchat before meeting up. Saying it's to get comfortable.

Not sure what to do, she definately is not a fake and someone actually showed me the pics she sent him. So yeah not sure what to do really
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dude99

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Currently talking to this girl who said just wants to have fun and she wants to exchange sexy pics on snapchat before meeting up. Saying it's to get comfortable.

Not sure what to do, she definately is not a fake and someone actually showed me the pics she sent him. So yeah not sure what to do really
How did the "someone she sent pics to," make out? Did meet her? Did he date her? Or did he just feed her ego with validation?

Beware of game players.
 

Prodoge

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How did the "someone she sent pics to," make out? Did meet her? Did he date her? Or did he just feed her ego with validation?

Beware of game players.
Yeah thats what i am worried about that pics get sent and in the end nothing happens
 

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I had a girl that I met on a dating site and got her phone number. We swapped a few texts over the course of a week. Next thing I know we are sending snapchat video and I've got her doing naughty things. After that I texted her a few times and never heard from her again.

I'd lean on the side that this girl you are talking to just wants to swap some pics/video. Her saying she wants to swap pics so you two can get comfortable doesn't really make sense. When girls say things that don't make sense, they aren't telling the entire truth.

What you could do is start swapping pics, get her horny, then tell her that this would be so much more fun in person. I've gone this route before and it worked out very well. It took about 5hrs of back and forth texting, but I showed up at her apartment at midnight to fuhk her brains out. Never ever met her before that. The texting and pic swapping was just foreplay that opened the door for the real thing.
 

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Meh. She wants attention. You can use it escalate it and go for the smash or ignore if you're not interested (or have other better plates).

Saw this pic on Imgur today, somehow seemed relevant re: attention seeking: :lol:

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FwoGiZ

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I'd tell he she needs a boy, not a man... that I can send her a pic or two but I am definitely a face to face kinda guy and have no intentions on having an e-friend but that I am interested in having a drink with her even just for an hour. Less time wasted, get to know each other better.
 
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