"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl wants to do "cross-word" puzzles with me.

rgeere

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Hmmm, here I thought that being smart was a bad thing.

There is a girl that came up to me a few minutes ago in the library and said that she wants to do "cross-word" puzzles with me later.

Good thing or no?

Yeah, you bet I'm going to take advantage of the situation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do you even bother asking here? You already know what you are going to do. Have some confidence in yourself mate.
 

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Originally posted by CaptainObvious#1
Why do you even bother asking here? You already know what you are going to do. Have some confidence in yourself mate.
Since I began posting and reading the material here over a year ago my game has approaved dramatically, so when I ask questions it's mostly to get conversation going.

She's been tryng to get me to help her with her homework alot and it has always been for small things she can do herself, so I don't necessarily think she is trying to use my mind for her own benefit.

She's interested in me and wants me around for sport. Well, I'll show her what kind of a sport I am after five minutes of homework ;) .....
 

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Fvck her in the ass!!!
 

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<lame joke>
"What's 10 across?"
"My d1ck"
</lame joke>
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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