"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl wants to do "cross-word" puzzles with me.

rgeere

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Hmmm, here I thought that being smart was a bad thing.

There is a girl that came up to me a few minutes ago in the library and said that she wants to do "cross-word" puzzles with me later.

Good thing or no?

Yeah, you bet I'm going to take advantage of the situation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CaptainObvious#1

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Why do you even bother asking here? You already know what you are going to do. Have some confidence in yourself mate.
 

rgeere

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Originally posted by CaptainObvious#1
Why do you even bother asking here? You already know what you are going to do. Have some confidence in yourself mate.
Since I began posting and reading the material here over a year ago my game has approaved dramatically, so when I ask questions it's mostly to get conversation going.

She's been tryng to get me to help her with her homework alot and it has always been for small things she can do herself, so I don't necessarily think she is trying to use my mind for her own benefit.

She's interested in me and wants me around for sport. Well, I'll show her what kind of a sport I am after five minutes of homework ;) .....
 

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Fvck her in the ass!!!
 

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<lame joke>
"What's 10 across?"
"My d1ck"
</lame joke>
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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