"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Overhand_Right

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I'm going to a drive-in movie with a girl who i'm pretty sure just wants to screw me before I go back to college. She always asking me when we are going to hang out and such. She has been saying this for a while and I finally asked her to the movies.

My question is this.... Do I treat her differently on this date than opposed to a girl I number closed in a bar? Should I still try to engage in good conversation...etc. Or should I skip right to the kino, and sexual stuff.

I'm a RAFC and I'm new to having a girl want to just plain **** me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If your sure id advise you to start makeing advanced toward her. Like If your in the movies put your hand around her, go for a kiss a little necking touch her in approately in certain situations, If shes cool with it all Its a matter of time before the situation gets hot enought that your F@^%in each other's brains out.
 

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a drive in movie eh?

sorry, I just wanted to say I love the name 'Overhand_Right'
 
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