"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Girl wants movie with another guy

R

Roobs

Don Juan
Joined
May 9, 2005
Messages
45
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
Australia
Im currently in an LDR with a chick ...yeah yeah i know they dont work..but thats my situation right now.....we've been together about 4 months...

she went to a party last weekend....i had no problem with that...she met a couple people...and one guy was apparently cracking onto her....im pretty sure nothing happened between them:

he's asked her 2 go to the movies alone--ishe asked me if this was ok, i said "hell no"-- and proceeded 2 explain that when a guy takes a girl to the movies, he has nothing but ***** on the brain......

apparently he knows she has a boyfriend....so i was like "*******"....she then got kinda *****y and saind "hes not an *******, its just a movie..gtg talk later"

i think i should stick 2 my guns on this...opinions, advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

R

reyalp

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 14, 2006
Messages
598
Reaction score
1
Location
southern usa
it's a jealousy test
 
A

AC/DC

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,270
Reaction score
3
Age
38
Location
hyphy bay area, ca
Let her go.

This isn't going to work. At least break her off easy.

Take some other girl to the movies.
 
R

Roobs

Don Juan
Joined
May 9, 2005
Messages
45
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
Australia
mmmk....i said go: after she said "i wont go if you dont want me to"

on the proviso that she takes freinds......

comments?
 
A

AC/DC

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2003
Messages
1,270
Reaction score
3
Age
38
Location
hyphy bay area, ca
Tell her that it's not your place to tell her what to do.

In any case, you need to break her off because you guys aren't working.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top