"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girl wants movie with another guy

Roobs

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Im currently in an LDR with a chick ...yeah yeah i know they dont work..but thats my situation right now.....we've been together about 4 months...

she went to a party last weekend....i had no problem with that...she met a couple people...and one guy was apparently cracking onto her....im pretty sure nothing happened between them:

he's asked her 2 go to the movies alone--ishe asked me if this was ok, i said "hell no"-- and proceeded 2 explain that when a guy takes a girl to the movies, he has nothing but ***** on the brain......

apparently he knows she has a boyfriend....so i was like "*******"....she then got kinda *****y and saind "hes not an *******, its just a movie..gtg talk later"

i think i should stick 2 my guns on this...opinions, advice?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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it's a jealousy test
 

AC/DC

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Let her go.

This isn't going to work. At least break her off easy.

Take some other girl to the movies.
 

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mmmk....i said go: after she said "i wont go if you dont want me to"

on the proviso that she takes freinds......

comments?
 

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Tell her that it's not your place to tell her what to do.

In any case, you need to break her off because you guys aren't working.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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