"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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girl wants LTR but I just want a fvk buddy...

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How would you guys handle this? This HB7 is a very decent girl, I think she might be a virgin, but I'm not sure. Anyway, we've been holding hands and kissing and stuff, but I don't want to go any further because I have a feeling that she will automatically assume that we're together if I do. I want a root out of her though...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Be upfront and honest. Don’t be the kind of guy that lies and says he wants her as a gf to get laid and then dumps her. Tell her what you want and be willing to lose her if she is not OK with this. Women are a lot more open to this sort of thing that most guys think. If she’s not OK with this, then there is no place to go with her, so it doesn’t matter if you lose her. You are now free to stop wasting time with her and you can continue looking for what you want. If she is OK with this, then you get what you want. You win either way. If you try to be dishonest, you lose. Also, if you act like a bf, she will think that is what you want, and she will think you are a **** when you act inconsistent with that.
 
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