"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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girl wants LTR but I just want a fvk buddy...

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How would you guys handle this? This HB7 is a very decent girl, I think she might be a virgin, but I'm not sure. Anyway, we've been holding hands and kissing and stuff, but I don't want to go any further because I have a feeling that she will automatically assume that we're together if I do. I want a root out of her though...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Be upfront and honest. Don’t be the kind of guy that lies and says he wants her as a gf to get laid and then dumps her. Tell her what you want and be willing to lose her if she is not OK with this. Women are a lot more open to this sort of thing that most guys think. If she’s not OK with this, then there is no place to go with her, so it doesn’t matter if you lose her. You are now free to stop wasting time with her and you can continue looking for what you want. If she is OK with this, then you get what you want. You win either way. If you try to be dishonest, you lose. Also, if you act like a bf, she will think that is what you want, and she will think you are a **** when you act inconsistent with that.
 
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