"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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girl wants LTR but I just want a fvk buddy...

TheFlyingMan

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How would you guys handle this? This HB7 is a very decent girl, I think she might be a virgin, but I'm not sure. Anyway, we've been holding hands and kissing and stuff, but I don't want to go any further because I have a feeling that she will automatically assume that we're together if I do. I want a root out of her though...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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coder

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Be upfront and honest. Don’t be the kind of guy that lies and says he wants her as a gf to get laid and then dumps her. Tell her what you want and be willing to lose her if she is not OK with this. Women are a lot more open to this sort of thing that most guys think. If she’s not OK with this, then there is no place to go with her, so it doesn’t matter if you lose her. You are now free to stop wasting time with her and you can continue looking for what you want. If she is OK with this, then you get what you want. You win either way. If you try to be dishonest, you lose. Also, if you act like a bf, she will think that is what you want, and she will think you are a **** when you act inconsistent with that.
 
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