"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When I asked her for her number, she seemed pretty excited about it. I asked her to go out for drinks and she happily agreed. Now what?

This is an area I've never ventured before. My friends are telling me that if she weren't interested in me, she would NOT have agreed for 1-on-1 drinks, especially if she has a boyfriend. I'm going to assume that.

A few things could happen. She could bring up the BF in conversation. If she does that, is my night basically over? I can just ignore it and keep talking. If that doesn't happen, what is my goal for the night? Get her drunk? Well, then what? I'm driving and she's driving.

What do I do if things go well and it's time to part? How about after the "date"? I'm so confused because I don't know what the proper "etiquette" is... (assuming you, the person giving me advice, are okay with being a homewrecker).
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Listen to how she talks about her boyfriend. If she talks about how much she loves him, than it is bad. If she complains about her boyfriend, than that means "GAME ON!!!"

If she brings up the boyfriend in the conversation, than just keep going on with the conversation.

- comic_relief

ps: I do not condone the actions of cheating and strictly abhor any amount of cheating in relationships.
 
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comic_relief said:
Listen to how she talks about her boyfriend. If she talks about how much she loves him, than it is bad. If she complains about her boyfriend, than that means "GAME ON!!!"

If she brings up the boyfriend in the conversation, than just keep going on with the conversation.

- comic_relief

ps: I do not condone the actions of cheating and strictly abhor any amount of cheating in relationships.
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How about in a neutral light? Like "Oh, my boyfriend has a mac too."

I acknowledge your ps. I agree, sort of
 
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well if u get her drunk enough to not drive home legally then u can bring her to your house :D forget about the bf any chick who goes on a 1-1 drink session with someone that wants to **** them knows whats about to go down.

she might not even have a bf chicks always say they have a bf as a way out later on in the date... OHHHH I FORGOT MY BF WONT BE HAPPY WITH THIS... 2 hours after uve already felt her up and kissed her... its like a money in the bank sort of thing
 
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If a girl's got a bf, and she's willing to go on dates with other guys, it's a sign that there's some form of unfulfilled desires with their partner, and they are open to taking on someone better.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ohiobohio518 said:
How about in a neutral light? Like "Oh, my boyfriend has a mac too."

I acknowledge your ps. I agree, sort of
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I just disregard neutral statements and look for the lines that actually have substance. Such as "My boyfriend is terrible for XYZ" or "My boyfriend and me are best friends. We do ABC together" *gush gush gush*

It those types of statements that you are looking for to judge what the woman is thinking.

- comic_relief
 
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