"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When I asked her for her number, she seemed pretty excited about it. I asked her to go out for drinks and she happily agreed. Now what?

This is an area I've never ventured before. My friends are telling me that if she weren't interested in me, she would NOT have agreed for 1-on-1 drinks, especially if she has a boyfriend. I'm going to assume that.

A few things could happen. She could bring up the BF in conversation. If she does that, is my night basically over? I can just ignore it and keep talking. If that doesn't happen, what is my goal for the night? Get her drunk? Well, then what? I'm driving and she's driving.

What do I do if things go well and it's time to part? How about after the "date"? I'm so confused because I don't know what the proper "etiquette" is... (assuming you, the person giving me advice, are okay with being a homewrecker).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Listen to how she talks about her boyfriend. If she talks about how much she loves him, than it is bad. If she complains about her boyfriend, than that means "GAME ON!!!"

If she brings up the boyfriend in the conversation, than just keep going on with the conversation.

- comic_relief

ps: I do not condone the actions of cheating and strictly abhor any amount of cheating in relationships.
 
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comic_relief said:
Listen to how she talks about her boyfriend. If she talks about how much she loves him, than it is bad. If she complains about her boyfriend, than that means "GAME ON!!!"

If she brings up the boyfriend in the conversation, than just keep going on with the conversation.

- comic_relief

ps: I do not condone the actions of cheating and strictly abhor any amount of cheating in relationships.
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How about in a neutral light? Like "Oh, my boyfriend has a mac too."

I acknowledge your ps. I agree, sort of
 
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well if u get her drunk enough to not drive home legally then u can bring her to your house :D forget about the bf any chick who goes on a 1-1 drink session with someone that wants to **** them knows whats about to go down.

she might not even have a bf chicks always say they have a bf as a way out later on in the date... OHHHH I FORGOT MY BF WONT BE HAPPY WITH THIS... 2 hours after uve already felt her up and kissed her... its like a money in the bank sort of thing
 
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If a girl's got a bf, and she's willing to go on dates with other guys, it's a sign that there's some form of unfulfilled desires with their partner, and they are open to taking on someone better.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ohiobohio518 said:
How about in a neutral light? Like "Oh, my boyfriend has a mac too."

I acknowledge your ps. I agree, sort of
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I just disregard neutral statements and look for the lines that actually have substance. Such as "My boyfriend is terrible for XYZ" or "My boyfriend and me are best friends. We do ABC together" *gush gush gush*

It those types of statements that you are looking for to judge what the woman is thinking.

- comic_relief
 
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