"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When I asked her for her number, she seemed pretty excited about it. I asked her to go out for drinks and she happily agreed. Now what?

This is an area I've never ventured before. My friends are telling me that if she weren't interested in me, she would NOT have agreed for 1-on-1 drinks, especially if she has a boyfriend. I'm going to assume that.

A few things could happen. She could bring up the BF in conversation. If she does that, is my night basically over? I can just ignore it and keep talking. If that doesn't happen, what is my goal for the night? Get her drunk? Well, then what? I'm driving and she's driving.

What do I do if things go well and it's time to part? How about after the "date"? I'm so confused because I don't know what the proper "etiquette" is... (assuming you, the person giving me advice, are okay with being a homewrecker).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Listen to how she talks about her boyfriend. If she talks about how much she loves him, than it is bad. If she complains about her boyfriend, than that means "GAME ON!!!"

If she brings up the boyfriend in the conversation, than just keep going on with the conversation.

- comic_relief

ps: I do not condone the actions of cheating and strictly abhor any amount of cheating in relationships.
 
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comic_relief said:
Listen to how she talks about her boyfriend. If she talks about how much she loves him, than it is bad. If she complains about her boyfriend, than that means "GAME ON!!!"

If she brings up the boyfriend in the conversation, than just keep going on with the conversation.

- comic_relief

ps: I do not condone the actions of cheating and strictly abhor any amount of cheating in relationships.
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How about in a neutral light? Like "Oh, my boyfriend has a mac too."

I acknowledge your ps. I agree, sort of
 
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well if u get her drunk enough to not drive home legally then u can bring her to your house :D forget about the bf any chick who goes on a 1-1 drink session with someone that wants to **** them knows whats about to go down.

she might not even have a bf chicks always say they have a bf as a way out later on in the date... OHHHH I FORGOT MY BF WONT BE HAPPY WITH THIS... 2 hours after uve already felt her up and kissed her... its like a money in the bank sort of thing
 
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If a girl's got a bf, and she's willing to go on dates with other guys, it's a sign that there's some form of unfulfilled desires with their partner, and they are open to taking on someone better.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ohiobohio518 said:
How about in a neutral light? Like "Oh, my boyfriend has a mac too."

I acknowledge your ps. I agree, sort of
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I just disregard neutral statements and look for the lines that actually have substance. Such as "My boyfriend is terrible for XYZ" or "My boyfriend and me are best friends. We do ABC together" *gush gush gush*

It those types of statements that you are looking for to judge what the woman is thinking.

- comic_relief
 
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