"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl vs guy frioend..Is having girl as a frind hurts?

Canadien

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So, after starting my DJ path 1 year ago, I have gone from almost no dates and contact with girls to casual dates on daily basis if I want, as, I just get these girls over a free vegan food they serve at university or the cafe shop, however the list of girls that I can hang out with is growing daily now...

And, there is nothing said about being a friend, its a grey area, and I like it that way, as I'm growing each day and learning so many thing, but should I initiate something? I have almost perfect chemistry with these girls, and its making me comfortable by the day, but then what do you guys think? is having girl as a friend bad thing?

Right now, I'm approaching and gettimng numbers from every girl that interests me, even I'm amazed at the results, so how do you guys handle when it gets easy to hang out with girls?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nightcrawler

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I really don't think it's possible for me to have girls as friends...it simply doesn't happen. Anybody else experience this?

My focus these past months has been to make friends to hang out with because I feel really lonely. I've tried making friends with girls but after awhile they start ignoring me to the point where they won't look at me!

Right now my aim isn't to get a girlfriend, though losing the virginity would be nice.
 

Leporello

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I don't think it's a problem. Yeah if you're very attracted to them it can get awkward, but in my experience that's easier to get over than you'd think. The world is full of women.
 
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