"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl vs guy frioend..Is having girl as a frind hurts?

Canadien

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So, after starting my DJ path 1 year ago, I have gone from almost no dates and contact with girls to casual dates on daily basis if I want, as, I just get these girls over a free vegan food they serve at university or the cafe shop, however the list of girls that I can hang out with is growing daily now...

And, there is nothing said about being a friend, its a grey area, and I like it that way, as I'm growing each day and learning so many thing, but should I initiate something? I have almost perfect chemistry with these girls, and its making me comfortable by the day, but then what do you guys think? is having girl as a friend bad thing?

Right now, I'm approaching and gettimng numbers from every girl that interests me, even I'm amazed at the results, so how do you guys handle when it gets easy to hang out with girls?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nightcrawler

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I really don't think it's possible for me to have girls as friends...it simply doesn't happen. Anybody else experience this?

My focus these past months has been to make friends to hang out with because I feel really lonely. I've tried making friends with girls but after awhile they start ignoring me to the point where they won't look at me!

Right now my aim isn't to get a girlfriend, though losing the virginity would be nice.
 

Leporello

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I don't think it's a problem. Yeah if you're very attracted to them it can get awkward, but in my experience that's easier to get over than you'd think. The world is full of women.
 
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