“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Girl visiting my town, help me nail the Tour Guide act

MoreThanSmooth

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Hey lads.

I've been super busy with work, but I've been chatting with this cute girl in the City and unlike most broken, weird women I've met on OLD she seems genuinely fun, non-needy, physically attractive. A pleasant surprise!

I was gonna take a trip up to her next week but she's offered to get on the train and come to my city instead.

Obviously I'm not going to turn down a hot chick coming down to hang out with me, but it's also made me realise that I'm pretty crap at playing Tour Guide. Last few times I've done it, it's ended up being a stuffy meal in some restaurant which is way too formal for a first date.

I know a few amazing bars and I'm on the coast, so chilling at the beach is probably the best option. Maybe the three bar bounce?

Does a date have to be more "spectacular" if a chick's travelling a way for it? It certainly seems to add a bit of pressure.

At the very least I want to go for a full snog at the end of the night, to justify the inconvenient train journey etc. etc.

Anyway I know for a fact that guys on here play host to a girl in a new town quite a bit, so thought I'd hit you all up before I f*ck up another first date ;)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Awww man saw this too late.

Anyhow how did your 1st date go?

I'd normally bring out of town chicks to someplace that's quiet and secluded but has an amazing view; so it's either on the beach with a view of the city on the other end or a hilltop bar/restaurant with a view of the city. Women tend to dig places like this and it kinds of loosen them up for something further later that night.

It doesn't have to be expensive, far out of town bars/restaurants are relatively cheaper.
 
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