Girl turns up with another dude....

[Dan08]

So recent posts of mine have mentioned a girl, was considering asking her for a drink and we've previously shagged and I wanted to take it to the next level.
I thought she was thinking the same, there was interest there or so I thought.

Had a house party last night and hit the clubs and she turns up to the party with another dude in tow and I'm like Fuuuuuuuu- inside but I play it cool, super cool. If I can take anything out of this it's that I didn't let on for a second it got to me or let it ruin my night.

Anyways we're out at the clubs and she's having some banter with me, we're dancing holding hands, having a good time and then she's off kissing the dude she brought with her and by that point I don't give a ****.
I'm having too many drinks and too much fun with mates to care and it's beautiful.

End of the night she gets a cab home with home so we know what happened, dude had my sloppy seconds

And now on a fresh Sunday morning when I'm looking back my ego hurts that I read this wrong, I'm sad because I liked this girl, I feel better that I know where I stand with her now and I feel proud that this has affected me less than what I would have thought.

So as of now I'm going to take this bruised ego and think f*ck this I deserve better and I'm hitting the gym, I'm buying some shoes and I'm f_cking getting back out there.

 

[foreverAFC]

i would show complete disgust at this type of ridiculous behavior, why would you continue to hang out and pretend like everything was fine when while you were being disrespected, this is what makes them think this type of behavior is perfectly fine

 

[Solomon]

So as of now I'm going to take this bruised ego and think f*ck this I deserve better and I'm hitting the gym, I'm buying some shoes and I'm f_cking getting back out there.

You're learning your lesson so KBJING needed although the borknovoy's will gladly come and dissect this but you're learning that's all that matters and inpsiring use that pain and let it fuel for success......

 

[Bible_Belt]

You missed an opportunity for epic hilariousness.

If this ever happens again, pretend like you seriously thought she brought the other guy because she wanted to be gangbanged. The other dude will RUN, she'll be mortified with embarrassment, all while you die laughing. Doesn't that sound like more fun than the evening you just had?

 

[SamTheHobit]

i would show complete disgust at this type of ridiculous behavior, why would you continue to hang out and pretend like everything was fine when while you were being disrespected, this is what makes them think this type of behavior is perfectly fine

She know her behaviour is disrespectful.

Pointing it out or acting up won't make a difference.

 

[adam225]

You missed an opportunity for epic hilariousness.

If this ever happens again, pretend like you seriously thought she brought the other guy because she wanted to be gangbanged. The other dude will RUN, she'll be mortified with embarrassment, all while you die laughing. Doesn't that sound like more fun than the evening you just had?

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Renegade357]

So as of now I'm going to take this bruised ego and think f*ck this I deserve better and I'm hitting the gym, I'm buying some shoes and I'm f_cking getting back out there.

LOL, a party girl doth not maketh a good girlfriend. Best not to dwell on lost opportunities with them.

 

[backbreaker]

You missed an opportunity for epic hilariousness.

If this ever happens again, pretend like you seriously thought she brought the other guy because she wanted to be gangbanged. The other dude will RUN, she'll be mortified with embarrassment, all while you die laughing. Doesn't that sound like more fun than the evening you just had?

http://img138.imageshack.us/img138/987/gangbang.jpg

 

[nismo-4]

She knows she's disrespecting you. Your princess is in another castle. Erase and replace her.

Case closed.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

she's having some banter with me, we're dancing holding hands, having a good time and then she's off kissing the dude she brought with her

No matter what happens in the future, remember this^^^^^^.

You now have the green light to treat this one like garbage. I have a feeling she'll come back to you either out of boredom or the realization that you were better than whoever she's seeing at the moment.... when or if she does....don't forget.

game on playa.

 

[VladPatton]

She cares so little about you that she showed up with another dude. That's very disrespectful. I'd barely acknowledge her existence at this point. She really doesn't deserve much more.

 

[Dan08]

Thanks guys for all the comments and suggestions, basically gonna be cold to her from now on. Minimal contact if any, will just ignore her.