"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys, this is my first post here, so....... hi. anyway, theirs this girl at my school that im attracted to, but the problem is that shes not in any of my classes, we dont ever walk the same way, and I only see her during lunch. I dont sit by her table or anything, and i cant just walk up to her table and start talking to her in front of her friends cuz i dont know anybody. I know i can start a convo if i had the opportunity but i never really see her xcept lunch. Any suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wrathchild said:
Hey guys, this is my first post here, so....... hi. anyway, theirs this girl at my school that im attracted to, but the problem is that shes not in any of my classes, we dont ever walk the same way, and I only see her during lunch. I dont sit by her table or anything, and i cant just walk up to her table and start talking to her in front of her friends cuz i dont know anybody. I know i can start a convo if i had the opportunity but i never really see her xcept lunch. Any suggestions?
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First off,welcome to the forum. Ok,let's see:You like a girl at school,but you say that you only see her at lunch,huh? In my opinion,that's actually good. The fact that the two of you are hardly around each other will GREATLY reduce any chance of you falling into the friendzone with this girl. That is,unless you approach her the wrong way. Anyway,back to your situation. Is it possible that you could speak to her after lunch? I mean right after lunch,but before the next class. Either that,or maybe you and one of your friends can walk by her table at during lunch and start a convo that way. By the way,it's one o'clock in the morning right now. Shouldn't you be in bed? You got school in 5 or 6 hours.
 
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you're lucky man...at least you see her at lunch..
one of the girls on my list i dont see at all cept maybe once a week or two

luckily i know where her locker is...but she's never there when i pass by...so the best thing you should do...is go up to her the next time you see her in a siutation that isn't busy...if she's with a large gropu of friends that you don't know...i wouldn't simply because they'll wonder why the hell you barged in

next time you see her walking or waiting..just go up and say hi
 
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Wrathchild said:
Hey guys, this is my first post here, so....... hi. anyway, theirs this girl at my school that im attracted to, but the problem is that shes not in any of my classes, we dont ever walk the same way, and I only see her during lunch. I dont sit by her table or anything, and i cant just walk up to her table and start talking to her in front of her friends cuz i dont know anybody. I know i can start a convo if i had the opportunity but i never really see her xcept lunch. Any suggestions?
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Who says you can't. Exactly, walk up to her infront of her friends, who cares, risk losing her, there'll be other girls.
 
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Who says you can't. Exactly, walk up to her infront of her friends, who cares, risk losing her, there'll be other girls.
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+1

Or , if you aint got balls to do this , eye contact her , if she eye contacts you back , consider it as a invitation. If she doesnt eye contact you , consider that as a invitation too. Nothing wrong with being rejected. If you wanna be good on this game , you have to deal with rejections alot. Noone has 100% ratio success game.

PS:Haven't seen you in a long time ElStud. How's your progress going ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wrathchild said:
Hey guys, this is my first post here, so....... hi. anyway, theirs this girl at my school that im attracted to, but the problem is that shes not in any of my classes, we dont ever walk the same way, and I only see her during lunch. I dont sit by her table or anything, and i cant just walk up to her table and start talking to her in front of her friends cuz i dont know anybody. I know i can start a convo if i had the opportunity but i never really see her xcept lunch. Any suggestions?
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I would try to catch her real quick before or after lunch. Like that time when everyone is still walking in to the lunch room but they havent sat down yet or theyre waiting for friends to arrive at the table. Or that time when the bell rings and everyone gets up and heads out.

Once you manage to strike up a conversation with her I would try to do so every time from that day on.
 
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is go up to her the next time you see her in a siutation that isn't busy...if she's with a large gropu of friends that you don't know...i wouldn't simply because they'll wonder why the hell you barged in

next time you see her walking or waiting..just go up and say hi
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Yea ive been trying to do this for a while but i havent gotten that chance yet.

eaglez1177 said:
I would try to catch her real quick before or after lunch. Like that time when everyone is still walking in to the lunch room but they havent sat down yet or theyre waiting for friends to arrive at the table. Or that time when the bell rings and everyone gets up and heads out.

Once you manage to strike up a conversation with her I would try to do so every time from that day on.
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This is actually a good idea, i might try this.

Igetit! said:
By the way,it's one o'clock in the morning right now. Shouldn't you be in bed? You got school in 5 or 6 hours.
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It was actually ten, i havent set up my time zones yet...

anyway thanks for all the replys... more are welcome
 
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