Girl Troubles

[Wrathchild]

Hey guys, this is my first post here, so....... hi. anyway, theirs this girl at my school that im attracted to, but the problem is that shes not in any of my classes, we dont ever walk the same way, and I only see her during lunch. I dont sit by her table or anything, and i cant just walk up to her table and start talking to her in front of her friends cuz i dont know anybody. I know i can start a convo if i had the opportunity but i never really see her xcept lunch. Any suggestions?

 

[Igetit!]

Hey guys, this is my first post here, so....... hi. anyway, theirs this girl at my school that im attracted to, but the problem is that shes not in any of my classes, we dont ever walk the same way, and I only see her during lunch. I dont sit by her table or anything, and i cant just walk up to her table and start talking to her in front of her friends cuz i dont know anybody. I know i can start a convo if i had the opportunity but i never really see her xcept lunch. Any suggestions?

First off,welcome to the forum. Ok,let's see:You like a girl at school,but you say that you only see her at lunch,huh? In my opinion,that's actually good. The fact that the two of you are hardly around each other will GREATLY reduce any chance of you falling into the friendzone with this girl. That is,unless you approach her the wrong way. Anyway,back to your situation. Is it possible that you could speak to her after lunch? I mean right after lunch,but before the next class. Either that,or maybe you and one of your friends can walk by her table at during lunch and start a convo that way. By the way,it's one o'clock in the morning right now. Shouldn't you be in bed? You got school in 5 or 6 hours.

 

[jeffthechef]

you're lucky man...at least you see her at lunch..
one of the girls on my list i dont see at all cept maybe once a week or two

luckily i know where her locker is...but she's never there when i pass by...so the best thing you should do...is go up to her the next time you see her in a siutation that isn't busy...if she's with a large gropu of friends that you don't know...i wouldn't simply because they'll wonder why the hell you barged in

next time you see her walking or waiting..just go up and say hi

 

[ElStud]

Hey guys, this is my first post here, so....... hi. anyway, theirs this girl at my school that im attracted to, but the problem is that shes not in any of my classes, we dont ever walk the same way, and I only see her during lunch. I dont sit by her table or anything, and i cant just walk up to her table and start talking to her in front of her friends cuz i dont know anybody. I know i can start a convo if i had the opportunity but i never really see her xcept lunch. Any suggestions?

Who says you can't. Exactly, walk up to her infront of her friends, who cares, risk losing her, there'll be other girls.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Who says you can't. Exactly, walk up to her infront of her friends, who cares, risk losing her, there'll be other girls.

+1

Or , if you aint got balls to do this , eye contact her , if she eye contacts you back , consider it as a invitation. If she doesnt eye contact you , consider that as a invitation too. Nothing wrong with being rejected. If you wanna be good on this game , you have to deal with rejections alot. Noone has 100% ratio success game.

PS:Haven't seen you in a long time ElStud. How's your progress going ?

 

[eaglez1177]

Hey guys, this is my first post here, so....... hi. anyway, theirs this girl at my school that im attracted to, but the problem is that shes not in any of my classes, we dont ever walk the same way, and I only see her during lunch. I dont sit by her table or anything, and i cant just walk up to her table and start talking to her in front of her friends cuz i dont know anybody. I know i can start a convo if i had the opportunity but i never really see her xcept lunch. Any suggestions?

I would try to catch her real quick before or after lunch. Like that time when everyone is still walking in to the lunch room but they havent sat down yet or theyre waiting for friends to arrive at the table. Or that time when the bell rings and everyone gets up and heads out.

Once you manage to strike up a conversation with her I would try to do so every time from that day on.

 

[Wrathchild]

is go up to her the next time you see her in a siutation that isn't busy...if she's with a large gropu of friends that you don't know...i wouldn't simply because they'll wonder why the hell you barged in

next time you see her walking or waiting..just go up and say hi

Yea ive been trying to do this for a while but i havent gotten that chance yet.

I would try to catch her real quick before or after lunch. Like that time when everyone is still walking in to the lunch room but they havent sat down yet or theyre waiting for friends to arrive at the table. Or that time when the bell rings and everyone gets up and heads out.

Once you manage to strike up a conversation with her I would try to do so every time from that day on.

This is actually a good idea, i might try this.

By the way,it's one o'clock in the morning right now. Shouldn't you be in bed? You got school in 5 or 6 hours.

It was actually ten, i havent set up my time zones yet...

anyway thanks for all the replys... more are welcome