"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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When having a conversation with girls...what specific topics will you talk about?...Plus am very bad when asking questions? I just dont know what to say expect from hi, how you doing?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anything. She's an actual person, just get to know her. I know you have questions and you don't know some things about her, SO ASK HER.

Just avoid religion, politics, etc.
 
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Just say anything, it doesn't matter WHAT you say. Besides, being good at conversation does NOT gaurantee that she's attracted. If you're just good at conversation, she might be interested in you as a friend, but not really attracted to you. Besides, you're going in for rapport too early. Before you go for rapport, you've got to hook her and attract her. The way you go about doing this is negging her, using C+F, teasing her, basically, you use attraction techniques. Once she's hooked and you'll know that when she's probably laughing and stuff, THEN you can start going for rapport and asking her stuff like "How was your weekend?". If you go for rapport from the start, she won't know your value and thus will show disinterest.
 
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Ask her if she can make her elbows touch behind her back. That's always funny. (especially when it doesn't happen, and in the end, she's just popping her tits out)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ElStud said:
Just say anything, it doesn't matter WHAT you say. Besides, being good at conversation does NOT gaurantee that she's attracted. If you're just good at conversation, she might be interested in you as a friend, but not really attracted to you. Besides, you're going in for rapport too early. Before you go for rapport, you've got to hook her and attract her. The way you go about doing this is negging her, using C+F, teasing her, basically, you use attraction techniques. Once she's hooked and you'll know that when she's probably laughing and stuff, THEN you can start going for rapport and asking her stuff like "How was your weekend?". If you go for rapport from the start, she won't know your value and thus will show disinterest.
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Wow, maybe you should try following your own advice.:up:
 
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HandyAndy said:
Avoid rape and death lol.

Talk about drama, whats happening in the news, celebrity life, all the good stuff like style
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If the convo goes really bad rape and death may be his only choice.

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