"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cesar

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When having a conversation with girls...what specific topics will you talk about?...Plus am very bad when asking questions? I just dont know what to say expect from hi, how you doing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Emotion_sponge

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Anything. She's an actual person, just get to know her. I know you have questions and you don't know some things about her, SO ASK HER.

Just avoid religion, politics, etc.
 

ElStud

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Just say anything, it doesn't matter WHAT you say. Besides, being good at conversation does NOT gaurantee that she's attracted. If you're just good at conversation, she might be interested in you as a friend, but not really attracted to you. Besides, you're going in for rapport too early. Before you go for rapport, you've got to hook her and attract her. The way you go about doing this is negging her, using C+F, teasing her, basically, you use attraction techniques. Once she's hooked and you'll know that when she's probably laughing and stuff, THEN you can start going for rapport and asking her stuff like "How was your weekend?". If you go for rapport from the start, she won't know your value and thus will show disinterest.
 

thatguyjamalx

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Ask her if she can make her elbows touch behind her back. That's always funny. (especially when it doesn't happen, and in the end, she's just popping her tits out)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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HandyAndy

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ElStud said:
Just say anything, it doesn't matter WHAT you say. Besides, being good at conversation does NOT gaurantee that she's attracted. If you're just good at conversation, she might be interested in you as a friend, but not really attracted to you. Besides, you're going in for rapport too early. Before you go for rapport, you've got to hook her and attract her. The way you go about doing this is negging her, using C+F, teasing her, basically, you use attraction techniques. Once she's hooked and you'll know that when she's probably laughing and stuff, THEN you can start going for rapport and asking her stuff like "How was your weekend?". If you go for rapport from the start, she won't know your value and thus will show disinterest.
Wow, maybe you should try following your own advice.:up:
 

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HandyAndy said:
Avoid rape and death lol.

Talk about drama, whats happening in the news, celebrity life, all the good stuff like style
If the convo goes really bad rape and death may be his only choice.

:cool:
 
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