Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl throwing some C&F and me..DJ style..what would you say?

shark

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Situation: She's at a field watching a game with her family or something..and you happend to be heading over to play some basketball with a friend

I call her on the phone and say:

"Hey, are you still at the field"
her-"yeahh...why"
me-"I'm here now too, playing some ball...i didn't see you at the first field"
her-"yeah i'm over at the furthest feild"
me-yeah well, if you walk over you'll see me
her--maybe ill walk over, if your lucky
me-yeah well you'll be lucky if you see me

What would you have said? hmm..hah
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Her: maybe ill walk over, if your lucky

You: I don’t need luck, babe. (in an egotistical way)

She will probably reply with "oh is it hey?" or something along those lines, and that’s where u say something like "I'll see you in ten minutes, don’t keep me waiting"

This way u come out being in control, you are letting her know that SHE is the lucky one to be in YOUR company, and that YOU make the rules, NOT her.;)


Laterz...
 

Alphathree

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I love sharp girls. I have a war of ****y words with them and it's a helluva fun.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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her--maybe ill walk over, if your lucky
YOU: OK, i'll see you in a few
or
her--maybe ill walk over, if your lucky
YOU: maybe you'll be lucky if i'm still here
NOW THATS PIMPING
 
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