"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl throwing some C&F and me..DJ style..what would you say?

shark

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Situation: She's at a field watching a game with her family or something..and you happend to be heading over to play some basketball with a friend

I call her on the phone and say:

"Hey, are you still at the field"
her-"yeahh...why"
me-"I'm here now too, playing some ball...i didn't see you at the first field"
her-"yeah i'm over at the furthest feild"
me-yeah well, if you walk over you'll see me
her--maybe ill walk over, if your lucky
me-yeah well you'll be lucky if you see me

What would you have said? hmm..hah
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Her: maybe ill walk over, if your lucky

You: I don’t need luck, babe. (in an egotistical way)

She will probably reply with "oh is it hey?" or something along those lines, and that’s where u say something like "I'll see you in ten minutes, don’t keep me waiting"

This way u come out being in control, you are letting her know that SHE is the lucky one to be in YOUR company, and that YOU make the rules, NOT her.;)


Laterz...
 

Alphathree

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I love sharp girls. I have a war of ****y words with them and it's a helluva fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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her--maybe ill walk over, if your lucky
YOU: OK, i'll see you in a few
or
her--maybe ill walk over, if your lucky
YOU: maybe you'll be lucky if i'm still here
NOW THATS PIMPING
 
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