girl thinks im interested and "dumps" me

[DJ Alejandro]

i text this girl rarely. we got introduced over a few months ago cuz of our common friends. she didn't give me her number tho cuz i didn't ask for it. just simple his and hellos.

she sends me quotes sometimes and i send some in return "when i have time".

i saw her yesterday while queuing at the cashier. i texted her that night saying "nice bag. where'd you buy it?"

i slept that whole night the moment i got home. [i was awake for more than 36 hours just studying for an exam!!] when i woke up, i got this;

"whatever. don't text me anymore cuz im not interested. and you're not even worth responding to. gudnyt"

this came as a shock to me cuz i wasn't really interested or showing any mixed signals so i responded with;

"haha! u just made me smile. first of all, not all guys hu text you are interested. 2nd, nobody said i was. i just thought that it wud be cool to have you as a friend but im not so sure anymore. and you even insulted me. i always treated you with respect and i ddn't deserve that. ur cute bt it takes so much more than that. it's quite a big insult to the girl if i you only like the face. luk, it's up to you if you'd respond our not but if you do, juz hope im still interested. tc."

she then responds with;

"bleh... ;P im not saying ur interested. and i don't care what you think of me. i don't even know you. ;p" -i think she's making up?

i responded with;

"suit urself. sori but i have to go. im still meeting *** and *** (her friends). im not really sure what you want."

how should i respond to things like this in the future? interactions through sms sure are common these days.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

If you write that kind of english in your textmessages there is no wonder why she doesn't want to talk to you again..................

She is playing mindgames, don't play into them.

 

[DJ_Dork]

stop wasting time with this biotch!

 

[popcorn]

She seems like an impolitewoman who thinks the worlsd evolves around her. Its up to you but i would certainly not bother saying a word to her ever again, thats how i would treat any woman with such bad manners.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

everybody texts that way where im from. we like to create shorcuts so we could have more characters.

yeah, i think she thinks too much of herself. i have deleted her # and don't even consider talking to her again unless she does something like apologize up front. i couldn't care less.
we hang out with common friends so im gonna ignore her.

what do you think?

 

[Charisma]

Don't ignore her, just treat her like a stranger

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Wow, she sounds like a real kunt.

 

[deeloo]

i would write "shut the **** up"

 

[Jay Fiedler]

Well, if you didnt get her number than how in the hell were you texting her? HUH? Inquiring minds want to know.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by Jay Fiedler
Well, if you didnt get her number than how in the hell were you texting her? HUH? Inquiring minds want to know.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

i got her number cuz our common friend used my phone to text her. itz just astonishing how some girlz could really be just so ASSUMING.

 

[AMF]

In future, if you ever meet or speak to a girl like this again, or ever get another b!tch text, please dont:

(a) Explain yourself

(b) Send texts the size of books, explaining yourself

Instead, say nothing. Nothing hurts a b!tch as much as ignoring them. Or instead, try:

"leave me alone ugly" or "please shut the fuk up"

 

[JSH]

I thought u recovered quite well

 

[DJ Alejandro]

now she's smiling at me! i just passd her by the lobby and then while im passing by she looks and smiles at me! i wasn't really looking at her cuz i noticed how she was reacting at the corner of my eye.

is she getting interested?

 

[j_kat_251]

How should we know? You were looking at her, does that mean YOU'RE interested? You may have looked at a BUS or a TREE on the way to the lobby. Are you interested in the tree?

A text message like the one she sent you is incredibly rude. Most DJs don't tolerate excessive rudeness. You know, what with standards and everything. But if you need her so badly, continue with the same mindset espoused in the Holy Bible, i.e. don't give a stuff what she thinks about you.

 

[CharmaLeo]

I think you handled it well and jut passed a 5hit test of some sort. You answered her like a man and now she thinks you are 'worthy' of her attention.

I say keep responding assertively as you did and don't back down. It seems to me that she now has a mod/high IL. One of this days call on her 5hit just so that you don't get cought up in her games. See how far she will go after that.

Good luck.