"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Girl thinks im a d1ck

MKS82

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How do you escape this? Cause sh!t was cool before but i guess through the grape vine she thinks im such a d1ck now. The truth is yea ive been a d1ck but it was justified atleast in my eyes. im not going to be some really nice guy to her considering she has some other guys after her and i know her little sh1t tests she runs. Weve hung out at least 5 times already but people are always around usually. What if i say hey you know i would like to get to know you better but im guessing that you think im a d1ck so i take it as you dont want to talk to me. Then i just stop calling her period. How effective is this? will she contact me if i say this stuff to her?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blinkwatt

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MKS82 said:
What if i say hey you know i would like to get to know you better but im guessing that you think im a d1ck so i take it as you dont want to talk to me. Then i just stop calling her period. How effective is this? will she contact me if i say this stuff to her?
I wouldnt ever say "im guessing that you think im a d1ck so i take it as you dont want to talk to me.",sounds like you are leaving her a reason not to talk to you. Who cares if she says you are a dcik,if she hangs out with you,it doesnt matter,actions speak louder then words. Just try to hang out with her on your own and kino and eye contact it up.
 

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Anything you say to her will make the situation worse. Anything...

Ignore the situation - say nothing. Act as if nothing happened. And stop being a **** to her and the situation should turn around in time.
 
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