"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you escape this? Cause sh!t was cool before but i guess through the grape vine she thinks im such a d1ck now. The truth is yea ive been a d1ck but it was justified atleast in my eyes. im not going to be some really nice guy to her considering she has some other guys after her and i know her little sh1t tests she runs. Weve hung out at least 5 times already but people are always around usually. What if i say hey you know i would like to get to know you better but im guessing that you think im a d1ck so i take it as you dont want to talk to me. Then i just stop calling her period. How effective is this? will she contact me if i say this stuff to her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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MKS82 said:
What if i say hey you know i would like to get to know you better but im guessing that you think im a d1ck so i take it as you dont want to talk to me. Then i just stop calling her period. How effective is this? will she contact me if i say this stuff to her?
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I wouldnt ever say "im guessing that you think im a d1ck so i take it as you dont want to talk to me.",sounds like you are leaving her a reason not to talk to you. Who cares if she says you are a dcik,if she hangs out with you,it doesnt matter,actions speak louder then words. Just try to hang out with her on your own and kino and eye contact it up.
 
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Anything you say to her will make the situation worse. Anything...

Ignore the situation - say nothing. Act as if nothing happened. And stop being a **** to her and the situation should turn around in time.
 
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