Girl that used to date jerks

[DJinTraining06]

Have u guys ever dated one of these girls? The one that says that all their ex boyfriends were a$$holes and that your so different from them.

My girlfriend is 23 and shes has slept with 6 guys - all ex bf's she says. And she has told me on a number of occasions that they were all jerks, sometimes with examples, which definately prove it.

Ive asked her jokingly a few times why she liked jerks and how come she likes nice guys now. and she says she's done with that, and the whole going out and getting drunk all the time thing, and that she loves that im sweet and i treat her good. So i said kiddingly to her, sureeeee, youll get tired of the niceness and eventually go back to an a$$hole. And she laughs and deinies it.

I wanna beleive it but i've heard this all before from another girl i dated, and after about a year she lost all interest in me, dumped me and went back to her old ways of excessive partying and a$$hole liking, after she told me a zillion times she was done with that and she crazy bout me.

Do i have anything to worry about with this girl? I mean i understand a few of the realtionships were high school ones so those dont matter she was young then. And even early college years as well. But as for her last 2 relationships, she dated those guys for pretty long periods and the stories she has told about them make them seem like total sh*theads, i cant even fathom her going out with them. She's so unlike that now. so weird.

 

[Docs]

Mmm....I don't know exactly. I guess if you're really concerned about it, you could purposely stand her, and follow with innocence, do it again, follow with a bad date, and come back with niceness?

Sounds too complex to me, I'd rather just date her and enjoy, rather then worry my head off about an 'it could happen...'.

 

[Rebound Material]

Maybe you're a jerk and you just dont know it? Its a possibility right? Maybe it was after she dated those guys where she actually looked back and realized what a-holes they really were...

 

[speed dawg]

Jerk, niceguy, all that crap means nothing.

Just stay independent, don't let your life revolve around her, and just be light hearted and fun when you two are together. Do your own things, keep hanging out with your friends. You don't have to an azzhole, you just have to stay confident and independent, not clingy and dependent.

And if she says she slept with 6 guys, I'd bank on about 10-12. Don't ever ask a girl this question again. You don't need to know. You can tell if she's a slvt or not from her actions.

 

[spider_007]

spice it up a little....don't turn into a bore.

 

[vorbis]

hard one to judge. Some girls have a tendency to call ALL exes where things ended badly jerks. How jerkish were the exes? Everyone has their bad moments in a relationship.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

You can create the attraction that a "jerk" creates in a girl, without actually acting like an a$$hole at the same time.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Jerk, niceguy, all that crap means nothing.

Just stay independent, don't let your life revolve around her, and just be light hearted and fun when you two are together. Do your own things, keep hanging out with your friends. You don't have to an azzhole, you just have to stay confident and independent, not clingy and dependent.

And if she says she slept with 6 guys, I'd bank on about 10-12. Don't ever ask a girl this question again. You don't need to know. You can tell if she's a slvt or not from her actions.

she asked me i didnt ask her. SO i told her how many, and then asked her cuz thats only fair since she broght it up.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Jerk, niceguy, all that crap means nothing.

Just stay independent, don't let your life revolve around her, and just be light hearted and fun when you two are together. Do your own things, keep hanging out with your friends. You don't have to an azzhole, you just have to stay confident and independent, not clingy and dependent.

And if she says she slept with 6 guys, I'd bank on about 10-12. Don't ever ask a girl this question again. You don't need to know. You can tell if she's a slvt or not from her actions.

10-12 holy sh*t! She def doesnt seem like a slut, but that is a huge amount for a 23 yr old in my opinion. 6 is ok with me, but 10-12 is insane, i hope not. Plus that would also mean she had one night things, cuz she said she only had 6 bf's.
She is very horny and wants to do it all the time, and she gets off really fast, faster than i do sometimes lol. I always hear guys complain that girls dont wanna have sex as often as they do, did i get lucky or is she a slut?

 

[DJDamage]

Women like Men who are a challenge.

Jerk = Challenge.

Nice guy = No Challenge.

Nice Guy with a backbone and game = Challenge.

Nice guy with game that ends up dumping her =Jerk.

See how it works??

 

[TheNastyPlayer]

I bang tons of girls and I've been told I'm a big fat jerk.

Try asking some of the girls I took home on St Patrick's Day... Sophia and Carmen

 

[speed dawg]

10-12 holy sh*t! She def doesnt seem like a slut, but that is a huge amount for a 23 yr old in my opinion. 6 is ok with me, but 10-12 is insane, i hope not. Plus that would also mean she had one night things, cuz she said she only had 6 bf's.
She is very horny and wants to do it all the time, and she gets off really fast, faster than i do sometimes lol. I always hear guys complain that girls dont wanna have sex as often as they do, did i get lucky or is she a slut?

Who knows, but girls I know usually take off a few when confronted with this question. She may be telling the truth.

People have to be a little wild in this day and age to get it out of their system. Girls will ALWAYS have someone to fukk. She may be a little more liberated, not necessarily a slvt.

A good question is, how long did it take YOU to fukk her? That's probably what she did with the rest of them. All girls are always going to have a steady supply of d1ck available to them. Whether it be ONE guy, or ten.

 

[DJinTraining06]

Who knows, but girls I know usually take off a few when confronted with this question. She may be telling the truth.

People have to be a little wild in this day and age to get it out of their system. Girls will ALWAYS have someone to fukk. She may be a little more liberated, not necessarily a slvt.

A good question is, how long did it take YOU to fukk her? That's probably what she did with the rest of them. All girls are always going to have a steady supply of d1ck available to them. Whether it be ONE guy, or ten.

3rd date. not bad right?

 

[speed dawg]

3rd date. not bad right?

I wouldn't think so. Par for the course.

BUT.....

make no mistake, she still likes to party. Can't change people. You just gotta cool, calm and confident. NOT clingy. Just have fun, quit worrying so much. Hang out with her and if she turns out to be a slvt, so what, at least you got some puzzy.

 

[DJinTraining06]

I wouldn't think so. Par for the course.

BUT.....

make no mistake, she still likes to party. Can't change people. You just gotta cool, calm and confident. NOT clingy. Just have fun, quit worrying so much. Hang out with her and if she turns out to be a slvt, so what, at least you got some puzzy.

Very true im getting laid plenty which is excellent, not really worryin bout it, i just like to tread cautiously cuz i don't wanna get hurt. A girl who sleeps around that easily makes u wonder, not that 6 guys is alot for her age (though its def not a lil either), but like the other guy said, maybe its 10-12 and shes rouding down lol. Her "I love u" would be totally discredited to me if i knew she slepot with 12 guys at her age. But thats just me and my beliefs, im sure plenty of guys differ.

 

[ryannath]

^^This TROLL above me is just promoting that webcam site. He needs to be banned. He offers no real advice at all.