well theres this girl that obviously thaught that i looked good and she wanted to go with me....but me knowing not to go with this chick off the bat...played a few games with her mind...(flirting with her, then flirting with her friend the next second)...u kno what a dj would do...neway eventually this got old to her...and she snaped and went from loving me to hating me....now me acting lik a fukin chump..... i want her back....if i put effort into it i could get her...but im not a fukin chump so whats the dj way to have her crawling bak to me lik the lil ho should...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Let's see if I ca help here:
First, are you sure she really hates you? I mean, girls sometimes go on big mood swings, and this can be one of them. Therefore, one of your options is to let things cool down (no more than a couple of days) and then try talking to her. Unfortunately, you may have to "spill the beans" if her "anger" is for real so she knows why you were doing what you did. If you "spill the beans", you also have to ask her out then as well or else it all seems to be really weird and awkward (I learned this the hard way).
You could also just talk to her without telling her you like her, which may be a better idea. Just tone down the flirting a little bit for at least the time being (to other people while in front of her) so she doesn't get the impression that you are an arrogant jerk (which you aren't).
Other members may give you better advice, but I hope this helps.
First, are you sure she really hates you? I mean, girls sometimes go on big mood swings, and this can be one of them. Therefore, one of your options is to let things cool down (no more than a couple of days) and then try talking to her. Unfortunately, you may have to "spill the beans" if her "anger" is for real so she knows why you were doing what you did. If you "spill the beans", you also have to ask her out then as well or else it all seems to be really weird and awkward (I learned this the hard way).
You could also just talk to her without telling her you like her, which may be a better idea. Just tone down the flirting a little bit for at least the time being (to other people while in front of her) so she doesn't get the impression that you are an arrogant jerk (which you aren't).
Other members may give you better advice, but I hope this helps.
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She's trying to play you. The best way to get her back is to give her the silent treatment while you mac on her friends. Completely ignore her and try to move on. But if you still want her, you need to NOT want her. Doesn't make sense but just do as I say and you'll have your way.
She's trying to play you. The best way to get her back is to give her the silent treatment while you mac on her friends. Completely ignore her and try to move on. But if you still want her, you need to NOT want her. Doesn't make sense but just do as I say and you'll have your way.
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YOU know what ur talking aboutOriginally posted by The Comeback Kid
Let's see if I ca help here:
First, are you sure she really hates you? I mean, girls sometimes go on big mood swings, and this can be one of them. Therefore, one of your options is to let things cool down (no more than a couple of days) and then try talking to her. Unfortunately, you may have to "spill the beans" if her "anger" is for real so she knows why you were doing what you did. If you "spill the beans", you also have to ask her out then as well or else it all seems to be really weird and awkward (I learned this the hard way).
You could also just talk to her without telling her you like her, which may be a better idea. Just tone down the flirting a little bit for at least the time being (to other people while in front of her) so she doesn't get the impression that you are an arrogant jerk (which you aren't).
Other members may give you better advice, but I hope this helps.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
if she said she liked u, then that feeling isnt gonna go away just like that. shes still gotta hav sumthing going for ya. just knok it down a notch with tha flirting and be a bit more serious wen ya talk to her, giv her sum nice guy stuf.
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