Girl that is quite the complex

[white cloud 8]

There is this Asian girl that I know, and, we talk every so often (hang out occasionally). Anyway, yesterday when we met up and had a conversation, she talks about other people (gossip) so I don't know if thats something to watch out for, the interesting thing arose when I got onto the topic of attraction; I said that attraction is a natural thing, you can't force someone to like you because it is not going to happen (she agrees), if it happens, it happens. Then after a brief moment of silence she says "Well, I like you...", I just look at her and say that I like me too (she laughs). Little subtle hints, I find its sort of hard to read her because her personality is quite complex . I guess I'll just see what develops with her.

BTW: Kino works like a charm with her e.g. I tell her that I bet I can make her laugh in 5 sec. (she keeps a straight face) then I say "Well, I guess I'm going to have to go to plan B", and I surprise tickle her.

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by white cloud 8
There is this Asian girl that I know, and, we talk every so often (hang out occasionally). Anyway, yesterday when we met up and had a conversation, she talks about other people (gossip) so I don't know if thats something to watch out for, the interesting thing arose when I got onto the topic of attraction; I said that attraction is a natural thing, you can't force someone to like you because it is not going to happen (she agrees), if it happens, it happens. Then after a brief moment of silence she says "Well, I like you...", I just look at her and say that I like me too (she laughs). Little subtle hints, I find its sort of hard to read her because her personality is quite complex . I guess I'll just see what develops with her.

BTW: Kino works like a charm with her e.g. I tell her that I bet I can make her laugh in 5 sec. (she keeps a straight face) then I say "Well, I guess I'm going to have to go to plan B", and I surprise tickle her.

Sounds like she's hiding her feelings away from you. Dont waste too much time ... ask her out !

 

[white cloud 8]

I get the feeling sometimes too that she can be shallow at times e.g. she doesn't like ugly people :crackup: or she could be joking because the majority of the time we joke around. Like most girls, I guess she doesn't know what she wants.

 

[Gonzalo]

Originally posted by white cloud 8
Then after a brief moment of silence she says "Well, I like you...", I just look at her and say that I like me too (she laughs).

Uh... so, what's not clear about "I like you"?

In any case (if she's playing, whatever), don't worry about "reading her", just proceed with your game assuming she likes you.

 

[DJ4Real]

All women are complex. You'll get this woman though.

 

[Maverick001]

Originally posted by white cloud 8
I get the feeling sometimes too that she can be shallow at times e.g. she doesn't like ugly people :crackup: or she could be joking because the majority of the time we joke around. Like most girls, I guess she doesn't know what she wants.

Why are you concerned with what she wants? Do what you want. Lead and have her follow. Pace it as you like.

Yes, call her out on that gossip sh!t. Anyone who`s interested in the lives and affairs of others is lacking their own.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav

 

[white cloud 8]

I continue with making fun of her (act the same way around her), just a little while ago she text messages me saying:

I think u should keep ur comments to urself sometimes. They're unappreciated.

I texted her back saying to give me a call sometime today, what should I do? I feel as if I should apologize for being rude and disrespectful to her. On the other hand, I feel she is trying to make me feel bad so that I'll succumb to her like everyone else (manipulation). Of course, I could just be over-analyzing this too much.

 

[white cloud 8]

What should i say to her? I was think of just apologizing for my disrespect and seeing if she had plans this week, set something casual up. Does that just sound like kissing her ass or the right thing to do?

 

[white cloud 8]

So basically don't bring it up b/c it shows that i'm not in control of my emotions, just act like it didn't even phase me and ask her if she wants to do something this week. Correct?

 

[white cloud 8]

suggestions, please?

 

[white cloud 8]

help, please? :yawn: :trouble: