"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl that I'm not gaming at work

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Need Advice,

There's this girl who I work with together, where I need her help and she needs my help. She's cute but I got a Girlfriend already and I don't like her in that way. The thing is, she keeps asking me to buy her coffee for the favors that she's "suppose" to do, I guess...I've never gave in b4 and never bought her anything. This has been going on for 2 months now...But should i buy her ice coffee now, after so much persistants from her?

The reason I don't buy her coffee in the first place is that I don't buy girls drinks. period. But this is a business industry work environment and would this make me less of a DJ if i do give in once? would this set me up for her to ask for more?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you're not obligated to do this as part of your job decline her request.

No sense in blowing money on a girl you're not interested in.

Even if its just to shut her up.
 
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I was never obligated but like i said, its like office work setting. If i do buy her something, would this make me more of a sucker? she wants me to buy it and bring it to her desk.

I'm thinking about it, and if i do, do it. What would i say to make it a differnet scenario than me doing an AFC move?

any ****y or funny line is there to even use? or is it hopelessly an AFC move nomatter wat?
 
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Buy the coffee, walk to her desk, drink it in front of her. Be sure to get a milk-foam mustache
 
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Giving in just sets you up for her to ask for more but if you feel you must give in at least ask her what she'll do in return.

If she offers nothing she gets nothing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm planning on buying her the ice coffee for her monday. Any c&f lines you guys think i can say?

Theres no point in asking her what I'll get outta it because she feels like she deserves it for all the work she done for me already. Not for wat she "is" gonna offer me.
 
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